My wife is not interesting to have sex recently. There are reasons and I don't know how to deal with it. I need sex almost every other day or once every week. How can I do to improve our sex life. She is also busy at school. Plus she is thinking to get higher degree (PH.D). She only had sex with me when she drink some achole. I must become 30 yrs. I wants kids, but we only had sex for about 2 months ago. I hope there will be a chance to have more sex during Christmas or New Years Day. Please helps !
2006-12-10 00:10:12 · 9 answers · asked by Nate L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When seeing other people's kids, especially see young coupls's kids. I feel so lonely. Also, I am almost exporse. I don't like to have sex with pron video. I need a real sex, especially only with me wife, not other women. However, she just doesn't understand how important the sex life is. She study pyschology, but she just can't understand that sex life is one of the most important thing to keep marriage alive. I get depress many times these days. No sex ! No Kids ! No happy ! I am really lonely.
2006-12-10 00:27:18 · update #1
I tried very hard to earn money everyday. Weak up earlier morning, cook for her, listening to her school life, drive for her, bought new car for her, pay for her school, and etc. Am I a good husband ? I am trying to be good husband, but I am always depress about not having sex, not having kids, and not having romantic weekend. She is out for school everyday, including weekend. She works at school, but she only earn 10% of my earning. Am I really stupid ! Or I just can wait couple more years to have kids. We lost a baby (miscarriage) 2 years ago. I miss the baby a lots..I understood how she feel, but 2 years is enough for recovering. Very desperate ! What can I do ? seeking for seperation or continuing be with her. We have been marry for almost 3 years + dating for 6 years before married. I need to be with her.
2006-12-10 00:37:32 · update #2
HI there ,
Sorry buddy but there is an old saying but a true one in cases whereby there is not physical or emotional reason (IE) Grief and loss, and that is if it's dead in the bedroom it's a clear reflection of how your relationship is going..... ( at present!).
You see us males are more physical in terms of we are if we feel the urge could have sex with anybody, as a figure of speech and in contast females give love and emotion in there love making so if your wife is not interested for one reason or another...
You need to have a heart to heart and ascertain her mindset..
Good luck
2006-12-10 00:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by Adrian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do something to excite her. Buy her a gift, bring her flowers and tell her how much you love her. Arrange a romantic dinner with the food and wine that she likes. Take her on a short vacation that would remind her your dating period, and if all this does not work, stand on your head or get yourself a mistress.
2006-12-10 08:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by markos m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered a trip to a sex store? bringing some kink into it might brighten things up for her. Maybe she is the kind of woman who just wants to add a little extra to the bedroom. Toys, games, costumes, etc, might make a world of difference.
2006-12-10 08:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dani 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to your wife about this situation and telling her that you want to have kids and you want to have sex, I think you're marriage might be on the rocks if you dont talk to her cos you seem to be frustrated by the whole situation. and she needs to know about it. Act fast Bro or it may be too late.
2006-12-10 08:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by SkilledKid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make an appointment with a marriage counselor.
2006-12-10 08:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wife has a new man find ur self a new girl and go to town
2006-12-10 12:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by eminem420u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a private investigator for your wife.
maybe he had sex with another guy.
no wonder he sont want to have sex with you
she is already satisfied
2006-12-10 08:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by applejuice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
www.fleshlight.com
2006-12-10 08:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how sad man...
2006-12-10 08:13:47 · answer #9 · answered by piercedgal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋