Live a little, your only 19 years old. A baby is not what is missing it's life. If your really serious about having a child you need to wait until you are financially secure. So here is your plan. Open a high yield savings account though emigrantdirect.com - sock away what it will cost per month for an baby, let's say - $150 (I'm being ultra conservative) and wait until you have enough money saved. It should take about 7-8 years, you'll still be more than young enough to play soccer w/ the kid.
Good things come to those who wait - better things to those who plan.
2006-12-10 01:30:07
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answered by Super Jim 2
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First, let me start by saying how sorry I am for some of the rude remarks you have been given so far. Some of the information given to you is true. You do have to be atleast 21 to adopt, both you and your husband. With some agencies, you have to be 30! If you go to google.com, type adoption in the search engine, and tons of websites will be listed. I do understand the anticipation of wanting a baby so bad, even at such a young age. I myself was married at 19 but sadly it did not work out. We were divorced in a year. I am only telling you this, because marriage is hard enough, especially in the first year, let alone having the added stress of taking care of a little one. I had a boy through that marriage, and he is now 7. I did however remarry at 23. Again, there is a point to my story. My husband and I tried for 3 years to get pregnant, but failed to succeed. So my doctor referred us to a fertility clinic. I don't know if you have already done this or not, but you should definately consider it. We used fertility injections, after extensive tests to find out why we were having so much trouble concieving. It was all worth it to have our new little addition to the family. We miscarried 3 times since then, so now we ourselves are exploring the possibility to adopt a baby girl. Talk to your doctor, social services,search the web. Go to sites that are primarily about adoption if you want to get real answers from real people who understand what you are going through, and your yearn for a child. They won't ridicule you or tell you all the reasons not to do it. There are all kinds too, open-end adoption, foster care, international, domestic, egg-donors, and many more. Feel free to e-mail me if you have any questios, or just need to talk. But seriously hon, you are so young to give up hope so soon. Adoption is wonderful, even if you are fully capable of having your own, but sometimes time, is exactly what we need to give. I hope you and your husband have 60+ years of happiness together, and with prayer, hope, and the help from family and friends, you will be able to share that
love with a little one. Lots of luck
-tina
2006-12-11 14:29:55
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answered by tinafreed 2
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Well, adopting through the state is pretty much free(you might have to pay some lawyers fees).Its takes awhile, and you probably will have to wait and the baby might be about 6 months or older.Trying to adopt a newborn takes alot of time and money.But sadly you can't adopt.You and your spouse have to both be over 21yrs old.If you go through an open adoption its not as much cost as an agency, but still pricey.good luck
2006-12-10 04:33:59
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answered by Anonymous
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puppies are not low-fee in case you correct look after them. Theres the fee of the domestic dog, vaccinations,worming,spay/neuter plus the best nutritional food all transforming into puppies choose. the only way I see any domestic dog being 'low-fee' is that in case you prefer to purchase from the human society. a minimum of then the domestic dog you will get will come vaccinated,micro chipped,wormed and glued. Plus the fee is lifelike and far greater decrease priced than in case you have been to benefit a domestic dog that has not had any of those issues do to it. in case you arent keen to fork out the money to a minimum of purchase from a shield the i might advise you are not getting a dogs until you have that funds to fork out in case you have been to get your self a domestic dog from the newspaper or Craigslist, you will greater suitable than in all likelihood be spending greater funds on that domestic dog with veterinarian costs than in case you have been to opt for a shield domestic dog if a responsibly bred purebred isn't what you're after.
2016-10-18 01:37:19
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answered by Anonymous
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Hey
i understand but i don't think anypeople here will give you a baby try the net serch you might find maybe you will find
Best Wishes
Chulan
2006-12-09 23:25:20
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answered by ~Insanity Has Taken Over~ 3
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ummm....if you're 19 try having one yourself. still expensive, but cheaper than adoption--plus you don't have to find anyone, just yourself. btw, you probably wouldn't be able to adopt at 19, I think they have age requirements, plus a child doesn't make a marriage whole, it just adds to the marriage.
2006-12-10 01:32:42
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answered by lori_a_esser 2
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there are some aadoption agencies also some tax brakes to help you with the $$
Wishing you the best
2006-12-09 23:27:50
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answered by Ivan 4
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I really don't know....but be careful sometimes someone will give the baby up and won't really be the parent of it.
2006-12-09 23:22:48
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answered by *you make me feel invisible* 2
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if you can not afford it than wait till you Can .........also no collage / university education agency will not approve of you
2006-12-09 23:24:07
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answered by Anonymous
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GET A PET DOG
2006-12-09 23:23:49
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answered by p1mp_1n 1
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