After 3 years and marriage plans, I found out my ex was cheating on me for our entire relationship. I called her and she knew all about me but he had given her the impression that our relationship was nothing serious. To name just a few of the things I found out, he had given me a present she had given him, he practically lived with her only keeping up appearances in his apartment when I came over and been on holidays with her. He told her I was a lying, that he felt sorry for me, then sent me a text saying not to contact him anymore and that his life was with her. She took him back and I was absolutely destroyed. However, ever since the beginning of 2006, he has been texting and calling me saying how sorry he is, how much he misses and still loves me. I have texted back saying that I did not feel the same, some things that are broken can never be mended and that he didn’t know what love was to do such a thing. I have never spoken to him and he is still with the other woman. I have not healed after all this time and tears still fall thinking of the depths of his betrayal. Why is he really calling? Is it worth hearing him out? Or is he simply bored in his current relationship?
2006-12-09 23:13:45 · 11 answers · asked by Mesh 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You said this guy was cheating on you throughout the 3 years of your relationship! And you even had marriage plans together! Amazing!! Do not trust this guy ever. He tells her you were a lier, he was leading both of you on, he even chose her above you when you confronted him... do not take him back, otherwise history will repeat again.
He is either bored with his current relationship or it didn't work out, or he has gone back to his old ways of having his feet on two boats at once.
Seriously, he is not worth your love. Go find a better pasture. You deserve much better!
2006-12-09 23:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, this guy is a total loser. Maybe you could give yourself a little therapy - try writing him a letter. Put down everything you're thinking and feeling about what happened, swear and curse and call him every name in the book if it makes you feel better. When you've purged yourself of all of this bad feeling and are satisfied with what you've written, throw the letter away, or burn it, whatever. Have a little private ceremony where you farewell the idiot once and for all, and then make a concious choice to get on with your life. You have to believe you deserve better, know you deserve better, or you'll just end up with another idiot.
What happens in your life is your choice, and that includes the way you feel. Choose to move on, choose to be happy, learn from your experience, and live a fantastic life. In time, when your life is on track and you've found happiness, all you'll feel when you think of him is pity.
And remember, true happiness can only come from within yourself. You should never rely on other people to make you happy.
All the best, sweetheart :)
2006-12-09 23:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Donna M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says sorry again about it, just say "sorry's good, but not good enough"
I went through this same exact thing, although my ex was in the army and met some other woman after we made up our minds about getting married. He later came back and told me he loved me and he couldn't be away from me no more and that's when I kicked him to the curb.
No guy is worth that much. He's cheated before for 3 years, what makes you think he won't do it again?
2006-12-10 01:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 02:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend in the same situation. I tried to tell her because I knew what was going on and as a result I was shafted now that her eyes have been opened she is trying to be friends again.
I truly agree w/ HiN u have to go with your heart!! Maybe u haven't been hurt enough yet to make the decision on your own ?!Obviously you still care or you wouldn't even entertain the thought of rekindling something that is clearly not good for you!!
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2006-12-12 20:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by jiguang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not provide him with another second of your time. Chances are, he's like many other men who thrive on the challenge. Do not be his prey. It's time to move on and find a man who loves you for YOU. That man will treat you the way you should be treated and if he doesn't, DO NOT SETTLE. Move on and search again. There are many out there, but they will not come knocking on your door that easy. You have to know what you are looking for.
When you learn to accept yourself and love yourself for who you are, you gain confidence within. This allows you to know what you want in a partner and the confidence to say "goodbye" if he's not treating you the way he should be.
Consider this a lesson and experience in life. There may be others, there may not. But regardless, LEARN from it and you'll know if/when you see it again, you can get out sooner.
2006-12-09 23:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by S H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry for u...anyway,don`t believe anybody including those who answer u.u got to think for yourself and take appropriate decision .this is the time u should be more alert.if u drink too much u may not take correct decision.....be care full....end will be always good for u...this is sort of testing....
good luck
2006-12-10 00:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by DrIndeed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not give him another chance, he does NOT deserve it. You can do way better. Living well is the best revenge.
2006-12-09 23:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that stupid relationship
2006-12-10 00:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋