After 3 years and marriage plans, I found out my ex was cheating on me for our entire relationship. I called her and she knew all about me but he had given her the impression that our relationship was nothing serious. To name just a few of the things I found out, he had given me a present she had given him, he practically lived with her only keeping up appearances in his apartment when I came over and been on holidays with her. He told her I was a lying, that he felt sorry for me, then sent me a text saying not to contact him anymore and that his life was with her. She took him back and I was absolutely destroyed. However, ever since the beginning of 2006, he has been texting and calling me saying how sorry he is, how much he misses and still loves me. I have texted back saying that I did not feel the same, some things that are broken can never be mended and that he didn’t know what love was to do such a thing. I have never spoken to him and he is still with the other woman. I have not healed after all this time and tears still fall thinking of the depths of his betrayal. Why is he really calling? Is it worth hearing him out? Or is he simply bored in his current relationship?
2006-12-09 22:58:01 · 7 answers · asked by Mesh 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think that if he was living with her, he was cheating on her with you, not cheating on you with her. She came first and you didn't, which may be what makes you sad. He is bored in his relationship. There may be many more women than just the two of you, this sounds like the way he is. You can never change that. Don't text him, ignore his messages, and if he continues, threaten to copy the messages and send them to her. Pity her and move on with your life.
2006-12-09 23:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The damage is done. If he threw the leg over some chick then he did not love you or think about you when he was doing it . Tell him to take a hike.. How could you even think of trying to love him again ?? No babe the damage is final..
2006-12-10 07:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that u dhould ditch him somewhere! What a nerve! Just give him a stiff and stern "No!" if u ask me. And if he still persists, then threaten him with a police complaint. I'm sure this too is a game. Don't succumb to his pleadings......
2006-12-10 08:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by Swathi Rao 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a pathetic, whiney, ******. You can do much better than him. There are plenty of successful, handsome, and intelligent guys like me out there. So cheer up! You'll find one!
2006-12-10 07:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a dumb jerk don't talk to him change your phone number and get it unlisted.He could be board or he got dumped and now he wants get with you.
2006-12-10 07:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz ur stuff is better than his current stuff so thats why hes callin he misses his ol stuffing!
2006-12-10 07:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He misses the p*ssy.
2006-12-10 07:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋