Then he later comes to tell me how sweet or boring the other one was. How do i save his next victim? I feel guilty like an accomplice. Help.
2006-12-09 22:37:24 · 38 answers · asked by Gilbert M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell the police about this
2006-12-09 22:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by anilda m 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
That is wrong, the only thing that you can do is talk to your friend and tell him that what he's doing isn't right and hopefully by you doing this it will get through to him.
The thing is you can't be around him 24/7 and protect every girl that he comes into contact with. The thing is these girls should know that they shouldn't be having unprotected sex with any guy no matter what sort of line he might use on them.
The only thing you can do is speak to him about it, also why is he doing it. Obviously the fact that he has HIV has upset him and he is lashing out at people as a revenge tactic but this just isn't the way to do things. Also maybe you should consider getting him to see a counsellor or a someone that he can talk to about why he feels the need to do this
2006-12-09 23:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
report this little runt..she should be locked up....i have read of some cases where people have deliberately infected others and they have been slammed in jail for it.....you call him a friend....he's a f*kin animal...your are an accomplice...and the best thing you can do is get as far away from him as possible, but tell the police first...he's evil....you could even go as far as printing some pics of him and putting them about the place to show people what an evil bastard he is and for people to stay well away....i think thats terrible what he's doing....he should not even be allowed on the streets...i just hope you don't have a sister.....she could be his nex victim....watch out for this guy...he's on a trail of distruction...get him locked up
2006-12-10 00:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are accomplice, an accomplice to murder.
If you don't report this to the police that is.
Now on another note: What if what of those girls sleeps with a guy that sleeps with girl that sleeps with you or someone you love, now everyone including you are infected, that is karma if you don't do the right thing and call the police. What he is doing is murder and can and will be arrested.
2006-12-09 23:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by LC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a way you are an accomplice. That he can talk about this to you and you dont report him or warn his victims, probably makes him think what he is doing isn't so bad. What kind of friends have you got?
2006-12-10 05:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by Stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make it clear that I wasn't interested. That I thought what he was doing was something I didn't want to hear about. I guess you could try to warn the next woman. But these people are engaging in risky behavior too, having sex casually with out a condom. It's sad though that he is like that. I have heard it is pretty common as if they are proving to themselves that if they don't have any symptoms they can deny it. Recently in europe I heard of someone going to jail for the same thing, so I think it is actually an offence.
2006-12-09 22:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by leilacara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, talk to him and tell him to stop,his proberly p***ed his got hiv but that dont give him the right to give it to other people,this is a hard situation for you,tell the police,his parents,friends everyone you can-then if i was you id get away from him-his a person with problems and has no right putting you in this situation.why are these girls not makeing him use condoms-what is wrong with the world,i bet most people dont even no the true meaning of the word sex (making love with someone you LOVE). good luck hun.
2006-12-10 05:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to wake up, he's dreaming.
Either he's drop dead gorgeous or he's a liar.
Are you absolutely sure that he even has HIV+?
I know this sounds a bit SAD but some peole are capable of saying anything just to get a bit of attention.
Even girls that are right mingers get to have sex so.....
If a Girl is a virgin, she's made a decision to stay a virgin until whatever time she feels it to be the right time, meeting your friend & having sex with him straight away is hardly going to happen now is it?
2006-12-09 22:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by Funky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell the police & anyone you think may become a victim. What he is doing is the same as attempted murder.
Also, this is not your fault. In this day & age everyone knows the dangers of unprotected sex & they should be insisting on condoms anyway. Especially if they don't know him very well.
2006-12-09 23:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever feel bad for trying to save someone's life. This is very difficult and confusing, but warn your friend that if he ever considers sex with anyone that you will tell his next victim that he is HIV+. HIV is an awful thing to go through.
2006-12-10 05:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you stupid or something ! If youre mate is doing this then one simple thing to do is to call the police give them as much info as you can and let them do the rest .
Youre mate is effectivly commiting slow murder to who knows how many people he slept with and in turn who theyve slept with till they found out . Hes sick and youre sick for not bothering to do anything about it . How can you sleep with youreself at night . Maybe he should infect youre **** and see how you feel . I cant believe that someone is that stupid you need to ask what to do ?
Dumb **** you need help , but atleast wait to sort youre stupid self out after youve called the police on that murdering scum you call a FRIEND >
2006-12-10 03:47:51 · answer #11 · answered by C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋