some people think its fine but some i think dont think so good about this idea? is this the right decision?
ive been with him since highschool
im 18 and he is 21
2006-12-09 20:59:10 · 14 answers · asked by takinbaksunday05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wait a two or three more years before you move in with him..
2006-12-09 21:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think it's too soon. Not because of how long you've been together, but because you're 18. Don't get me wrong, you're not a kid, but I think you'd feel better if you waited a few more years. People change and develop a lot when they're young, even between 18 and 21...
I recently split with the man I was in love with and trust me, when you're going through a break-up, the last thing you want to deal with is landlords and bills! And collecting your stuff!
But y'know - do what feels right!
2006-12-10 05:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by josifeen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person who knows the answer to this question is you. If you're comfortable with it and he is comfortable with it, there is no reason not to try it. Time will tell if it was too soon or not. Some would say not to push things, but I think it's better to find out now if the two of you can live together or not. Two suggestions: 1) Realize that the first several months may be difficult--it's hard to get used to living with a new person, so be patient while the two of you adjust. 2) Make sure the lease is under his name so you can bail if you need to.
2006-12-10 05:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by ms dont panic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah go for it, it wouldn't hurt to see if it will work out. I would suggest you wait to get married though if that is something talked about.
2006-12-10 05:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by who_is_cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea. Wait until your older or married.
2006-12-10 05:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for the sake of privacy , yours and others ! And get prenup so's not to make spoils and bad rep 4 your selfs .
2006-12-10 05:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by martinmm 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young, at your age you should be having a great time and exploring all your options, not playing house. If you don't feel ready, don't do it.
2006-12-10 05:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think it's a good idea then it isn't. So don't move in with him.
2006-12-10 05:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youre only 18 then no its not a good idea, definitley not.
2006-12-10 05:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by »-(¯`v´¯)--»CHELSEA«- 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
18 is to young . give it a couple of yrs more .
2006-12-10 05:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋