My daughter is in 9th grade & although she has a mouth with me, she would never go off on one of her teachers. The problem is I want her to. This one teacher does not deserve the respect of his students because he will say to a student if they don't get a Q right he'll say "Come on people nobody here rides on the little yellow bus" I happened to have CP & rode on the little yellow bus the latest comment he made was to Q my daughter about having bronchitis twice in 2 months. He asked what was wrong with her & with an attitude said "Again, you get sick alot lately, why?" Now I have begged her to let me call the school & even offered her money if she would just tell him to go to he**, but she's an honor student & is worried about the repurcusions it might have on her grade., My Q is has a teacher ever gotten back at you for something your mom or dad said or did?
2006-12-09 20:52:36 · 18 answers · asked by gitsliveon24 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
to the person who called me a bad mother, I'm sorry but I see how teenagers get trated by the public. If it was any other teacher I would insist my daughter be respectful but how can teen respect the elderly if they don't get respected?
2006-12-10 04:55:28 · update #1
when i was in year 11 of uk high school i went off on my english teacher becuase he caused my grades to go down because he was phucking useless. People were very surprised becuase im very mild mannered and especially to teachers. He was also very iconsiderate too my step father died in may when i came back to school he said "youve been sick a lot recently" i said "you are such an **** my stepfather died and the school was informed so why ask such a heartless question you clearly wasnt listening at the staff meeting" i also know this because everyone of my teachers sent me a sympathy card exept him. So some teachers deserve the mouth becuase they are in their own little world and up on thier high horses. So i completely agree that your daughter should say something otherwise he will just continue to do it as he knows he can get away with it. Or even better go to the head of department they can give him a warning and he would be oh so nice to your daughter after that :D
2006-12-10 05:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by miss89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just a Little off on the real Problem... And you are making it about you... That is wrong...
He might be an A S S of a teacher But you have to be Bigger problem than him... Its that simple... Don't go down to his feet and Wish he would meet you there....
If you don't like the way he teaches roll up there in your old wheel chair and tell him to respect you as a real person and the kids in his class will respect him also... If he can't relize what he has done wrong he will never will and he will be the 22% of teachers that Think that being a teacher is Just power... But hey don't really know what they are doing, To their class...
You might find something else for your daughter to realize that her teacher is using the is wrong,,, mind over powering the class.
Think before you Stupid Its your Daughter's Class NOT your's...
Study Hard, Play Hard, Have Fun... Or get out...
2006-12-09 20:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by Spinner...428 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've had a teacher like that. I tried to act the part of a fly on the wall, and he did eventually ignore me. My friend blew up at him once, and had his all A average tarnished with a B. I'd talk to the principal- sometimes teachers will use their power, and you have to go to their boss to get anything changed. Using that method, we got the rude teacher fired at my school. I have another teacher like that this year, and I'm going to try again. Some people just weren't meant to work with kids, but the kids shouldn't suffer because of that. Good luck!
2006-12-10 04:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by shivers_42 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well....I'm in ninth grade too. My honors class walked out of the room one time and EVERYONE got in trouble so dont let her do that. But my mom HAS called at the school and the teacher is NOT allowed to put what your mom said out on you...My mom did tell one of my teachers directly and the teacher gave me a hard time for the rest of the year so call the principle if you want her to stay out of trouble because my teacher was completely unfair about the situation and what she did to pur herself in the situation.
2006-12-09 20:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Just wonderin' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well last year i had a teacher who was racist against spanish people. So i told my parents and my grandparents. My mom told me to let it slide, my dad and grandparents told me to just disrespect her completely. So the next day i went to school with the puerto rican flag on my head and my friend had the mexican flag. We went into class and she just flipped out. I cursed at her, called her white trash and etc. I went to summer school for english for that (even though i passed all her tests) but i didnt care because im in the top class now. And the funny thing is in the beggining of the year she had a broken leg so i was satisfied and i called her "crippled ridge" (her name was Mrs. Ridge) so that got her really steamed up. Man, freshman year was the best!
2006-12-10 03:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES. most definately. Teachers are crazy beings, and they are usually mean, even though you get that occasional nice one or two. I don't know what you could do, except try and get with some of the other students' parents and then you all get together and make an anonymous complaint. God Bless
2006-12-09 20:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by Confused & Young 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in 9t grade and i've said some bad stuff to teachers who deserved it, however it sometimes comes back to hit you. you should anonymously talk to the principle...that way she'll/he'll know its serious but since the teacher is such a jerk he'll never know which of his studen't parents did it. but dont make a stink, because even though your intentions are good, your kid might get embarrased
2006-12-10 04:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhg honars. i got them all right now, ninth grade by the way. i have teachers like that. my parents allways tell me to talk. i always feel better after, and if i didnt i always wish i would have. no i have never had any trouble after talking to teachers, but one suggestion would be to have a meeting after school, maybe just teacher to student, or you could be there, but it might make the student, your daughter, look better if she did it alone. this might acualy be what he is looking for, my dad acualy had a proffessor in college who would mark answers incorrect so the students would need to come to him or accept the C =/
2006-12-10 00:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by Dude get a life! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is fair to ask her to do this. If YOU have a problem with the way that the teacher is acting then you as the Parent should step in. call the school.
OK
BYE
2006-12-10 04:06:49 · answer #9 · answered by May 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am in the college ,
i had to face the ,the worst condition in my lab external ,coming home i said my father the way the lady lecturer and the dirty ,filthy instructor behaved with me ,my father said he would come and speak to the HOD ,i said no fearing imay risk my marks.
after this we had 2 months of summer holidays,
at the beginning i had no clue of the same lecturer and the filthy man to be present in my labs(regular labs).
they always tried to put me off in one or the other way ,
things became suffocating ,my results came ,it was heart breaking to me to discover i cleared only the 3 papers,
i could not give my best because the incident what happened to me on the day of my external haunted me severely,& my efficiency came down very badly.
then i decided not to accept it any more .
i myself went to he HOD spoke to him about my problem,
then things came under control,the filthy man &the lady lecturer were forced to behave properly .
ask ur daughter to be brave ,bold & face the things,
if u keep quite who knows things may even go worser.
all the best ,face it u brave mother.
show them u r not going to keep quite .
its a matter of a future,
if u donot speak it may haunt the little girl allthro her life &she may start believing & think that nothing coulld be done ,about these issues,it will give her wrong message.
high school days are formative yrs to become strong indivisual.
2006-12-09 21:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by shwetha sharma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋