I saw he was kissing wich another teacher
2006-12-09 20:48:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You should keep your mouth shut.
2006-12-09 21:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, I think you should really think about what you said and What you did. I think it would be helpful to you if I pointed out a correalation. A black kid at school gets up in front of class to give a report ( lets say you have some kind of beef with him); would you call him a N*****? Calling a black person a N***** has the same amount of power as calling a gay man a F*****. I would hope that you would never do either one. But since you have called a gay man a very dergatory name, I think that you should approach your teacher in private. You should apologize to him for
being a jerk and mean it. Perhaps it might help if you got infront of the class and apologized for your behavior. You have to understand that gay people have a lot at stake "being gay". They can loose everything such as jobs, friends, and family members. Imagine how you might feel if you lost people close to you that you love. When you outted your teacher to your class like that you might as well of taken his whole lifes hard work. I think that people don't realize that some words have a lot of power and you used one of them. I cant imagine how your poor teacher must feel. All he is trying to do is earn an honest living, maintain his life and do what he loves to do and thats teaching. Be an adult and go to your teacher in private and tell him that if you had it to do all over again you would have never called him that name and you are sorry.
2006-12-10 08:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by metrogurl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If, what you saw is true, just where did you see him kissing another teacher? Was it on campus? If it was, then they should not have been doing that there. Though it is not advisable for two "adult teachers of any kind" to kiss on a campus it is frowned upon.
If you saw this off campus then it is none of your business and you also might learn to be a little more understanding.
and accepting.
As for your being kicked out of class: Did you call this teacher "gay" in front of the class? If so, then I am surprised he didn't do worse.
If you apologized, to not only him, but the rest of the class and really meant it, it "might" help.
Think before you open mouth and insert foot next time.
2006-12-10 05:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by dragon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We could use a little more context in regard to the situation leading up to your expulsion and what, if anything, happened afterward.
I suspect that you did so in a situation calculated to embarass him in a major fashion. If this is the case, the teacher has to maintain discipline in the classroom and was probably justified in removing you from the class. You don't say if there was any follow-up disciplinary actions or communication with your parents.
If his behavior bothers you, you could have handled it in a quieter, more mature manner. Did you think of talking with your parents first? Did you go to a school counselor to discuss how you felt? Either of these courses could have had the conversation at an adult-to-adult level with the teacher to address your concerns.
If you had to say anything in his presence, you might have gone to him after class and said that you felt uncomfortable with what you saw and that he might want to consider how his behavior affects his students. This, said in a quiet, respectful manner, might have taken care of your unease and alerted him to act in a more discreet manner.
Now that the event's taken place, you should talk with your parents and see what they suggest. However, depending on how and when you decided to comment on the teacher's life, you may not get a lot of sympathy.
2006-12-10 05:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by eriurana 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should apologize, of course. Don't mention what you saw, either. Just apologize for calling him that and hopefully he will forgive you.
2006-12-10 04:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by sakusha@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write out 500 times...."I am NOT jealous".
2006-12-10 04:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey your not getting paid, enjoy the holiday. I was cutting school one time and they suspended me? Like I cared, but they said hey this will follow you the rest of your life and I said so what?
2006-12-10 04:56:24 · answer #7 · answered by sirromo4u 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You should apologise since it is not your business at all...unless he kisses you...
2006-12-10 04:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Haha... Maybe he wasn't out of the closet yet an you hurt his feelings.
Buy him some leather pants or something, lol.
2006-12-10 04:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by Ch33kS_x00x 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋
hahahahahaa apologiz and its not ur buisness
2006-12-10 04:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by hum apke hai kaun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋