Have you ever heard a case where the marriage led to a divoce because the girl couldn't show her virginity at her first intercourse??
I am from a country where virginity is a must for a marriage. I fear for the marriage because I am not a virgin but still I want to live a happy married life with someone.
2006-12-09 20:38:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can get surgery done where you can replace your hymen. Good luck
2006-12-09 20:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There have been many women over the history of the world who have managed to fake the sheet test. If you have the money it is possible to surgically "restore" virginity in London. There may be other places where this procedure is possible. The other option is to get just a tiny bit of blood on the bed some how. Personally I didn't bleed even though it hurt.
On the last drastic end of this do you really know that it matters to you fiance? Of course it doesn't hurt to protect yourself by making sure he can't through that in you face years later. Well I hope that works out for you. I am a westerner but I lived in the Middle East and heard about these things. I think it is terrible that you have to be in a possition to start you marriage off with a le. Good luck.
2006-12-09 20:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by Constant_Traveler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's the matter of attitude.. if you want a virgin you will be a virgin...
And you said you are from a country where virginity is a must for marriage...
then how come you lose your virginity???
Dat means you are not bothered about you virginity...
and you want to live a happy married life...
Two different sides of a coin .. doesn't match at all...
you are the responsible person to keep your virginity...
2006-12-09 20:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ambily D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....it probably has happened here but I've not heard of it....In this country very few women ar virgins when they marry....If and when you meet someone that you think you want to marry, you should discuss the issue then you will know before the marriage and not later....good luck
2006-12-09 21:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are marriages arranged in your country? If not then find someone that loves you and will be able to get over the fact that you are not a virgin.
2006-12-09 20:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by Firienscatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Not only divorce, in some socieites the girl is killed if she's found to be a non-virgin. There the girls don't only fear for their marriage; they fear for their lives.
Plastic surgeons can replace a torn hymen. If you can afford it, get it done.
2006-12-09 20:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by wisdom tooth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are ways to break your hymen without having had sex. Maybe you can convince the man that you broke it some other way, like riding a horse or something.
2006-12-10 00:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe consider moving to the West? You shouldn't have to pay such a high price for having had sex.
2006-12-10 00:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I haven't ever heard about it around hear. How can they tell? Not everyone bleeds their first time.
2006-12-09 20:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by Kristen H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋