I guess it would depend on how your relationship is with the boyfriend. (hopefully you didn't get pregnant to trap him) It would also depend on your health. Above all, don't lie to the boyfriend. Let him know you are pregnant and also let him know how you are feeling. Are you scared at starting a permanent relationship with the boyfriend or just having to start over raising another child?
You have stress and that is what scaring you. But clear the air with the boyfriend and calm down. You and the baby will be better for it.
2006-12-09 20:03:14
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answered by De 3
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I wouldnt be scared. Children are the the one thing that keeps us alive and going. As mothers we can accomplish anything, even when single and not married. You have a great career, three older children which will probably help with the younger. Be strong for your children, they need you, be positive, they see your fear. Be happy, youre about to raise another beautiful child.
2006-12-10 04:00:04
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answered by Anonymous
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maybe if your boyfriend is abusive...
really, i dont mean to be rude, but you have already had 3 kids. you have had kids for 15 years! why are you even asking this on yahoo? no one here knows your situation or anything about you.
but no, you shouldnt be scared. youve had three kids, and one more will be a blessing too. you might be nervous having another baby so much later, but youve done it all before and you can do it again. you wont regret this child, you will love him as much as your other children! be thankful!
2006-12-10 03:55:14
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answered by Rebecca O 4
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Scared of what? If you're having sex, you knew you could get pregnant. Why are you messing around like this when you have three very vulnerable children? Smarten up, girl.
2006-12-10 06:55:40
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answered by Lydia 7
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All depends on how the b/f treats you and the kids already in the house. If he's a good man then congrats, if not then 911.
2006-12-10 04:04:17
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answered by Anonymous
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If you mean of telling him? No, be honest. If you're afraid of his reaction? Know that you've been a single mom before and you do what you have to do.
2006-12-10 03:56:20
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answered by Tweet 5
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SCARED OF WHAT?
2006-12-10 03:53:07
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answered by FlyingHi007 3
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