2006-12-09 19:41:21 · 8 answers · asked by arun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you really dont want to marry no nobody can force to go through the ritual. Your parents may be trying to persuade you to marry. Tell them firmly that you need 2 years time or else you will vanish without letting them know your whareabouts. It works dont worry.
2006-12-09 19:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very true...but 26 is the perfect age to get married. It all depends on you. If the partner to be would be a working lady, the struggle to get settled would be a fun. And in case, you want her to be a housewife...you should wait..
I am saying so because..when I got married I was 26 and my annual income was below Rs. 1 Lac, that was year 2000. Its true that my marriage was an arranged love Intercast marriage and we had decided that we will live moments and would struggle together. I completed my MBA and she did her Ph.D. after our marriage and now She is working as Professor in a college. Today I am happy, settled and planning for my our first issue..I am 31 now - as you would be when you marry at the age 28 - 2 years from now and then plan for a kid...
So it all depends on the way you would be handling the circumstances. I dont know the variable factors - whether you live in a combined family or working at some other place staying alone. being in combined family, the responsibilities get shared. Staying alone you learn everything when starting from scratch. As in my case I was away from home and was staying alone so my family is a nuclear family at this moment.
Ideally, if she wont be a working women then you should wait and convince your parents that it wont be possible for you to take the responsibility of your family. You know if you get married at this moment then there would be an indirect pressure also that - ab jaldi bachcha kar lo....
Take all the answers and then decide logically. I know things that happened with me was a very different one - my wife is my childhood friend so it was possible for me.
All the best to you.
2006-12-11 02:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Octoberfestin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say NO. Do not let them force you inot a marriage you do not want. It is you who will pay the price not them. Tell them you will not go along with their plans and then let them say or do what ever they want Even if they go so far as to set up a wedding ceremony you do not have to walk down that aisle. No one can make you marry anyone, unless you allow them to do it. You are 26 years old which means you are about as grown as you are going to get. It is your life, Stand up and take charge of it.
2006-12-10 04:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by cindyloo f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry in haste and repent in leisure-so they say. Never marry for the sake of marrying. Marry when you feel that you can spend some time your wife including on weekends & holidays. Tell your parents your side of the story. You are wiser if you marry late.
2006-12-12 10:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kushal-Know All 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
26 is the answer. No one should marry, until they are ready
2006-12-10 04:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by abby normal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to your parents you don't want to get marry now. don't force yourself to do it because of the pressure
2006-12-10 04:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents that you can't afford to marry and lead a married life now ...
2006-12-10 11:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be Indian, I don't know what you can do
2006-12-10 04:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋