Me and my friend experiment every so often but we both don't like guys we just sometimes like to lend a hand or suck, and F*ck
Its not all we all the time, but sometimes we do when were alone.
I like woman 100% but am curious a little bit so have done a few thing like recieve.
2006-12-09 19:36:30 · 17 answers · asked by jeff t 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Naw... y'all ain't gay, just a little bit too happy with each other, kinda like a Brokeback cowboy thang, yee hawww... I reckon?
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2006-12-09 19:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'm with most of them. *points up* Experimenting is just that, experimenting. Don't put too much pressure on yourself about this. Giving each other a hand, as long as neither of you start thinking its more than that, is harmless. Well... heheh As long as no one walks in on it. That could make for a very embarrassing discussion or ten. So remember to lock the door. And go with the curious feeling. No harm, no foul, IMHO.
2006-12-09 21:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by Suraya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being gay is unlike having a cup of coffee the place somedays u opt for it and different days u do no longer. it incredibly is who you're. U and your chum could be acquaintances with advantages for now yet once you think of approximately it who turns you on. whilst u think of approximately being with somebody is it a male or a woman. If ur answer is male then ur gay and if u sense this type and ur chum does no longer, then get urself a BF because of the fact eventaully somebody is going to advance thoughts and then all of it is going south thereafter.
2016-10-05 03:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
experimentation is how we learn....be it science, business or life.....im sure ya had to hear the sayings from older folk...."oh in my college days...." HS and "college days" are the main times we experiment the most to "find ourselves".....if you and your bud have such a close relationship in which you BOTH feel comfortable in the experimentation or the comforting of each others needs....it does not make you gay nor does it make you not gay.....it makes you very very very close friends....there's an old adage "those that are the closest to you, know the most about you, are the ones that can destroy you.....and that is what makes the best of best relationships". only you yourself will know rather or not you are truly homosexual....not your friend or anyone who answers this question you posed on line....YOU only can tell what you feel inside. and either way.....YOU need to be HAPPY with YOURSELF and YOUR actions.....no one can make you happy and no one can make you miserable without YOUR permission. Just like everyday you wake up.....its up to YOU on rather you will have a good day or a bad day....not anyone else...not anyone's actions....YOU and YOUR actions dictate the results of your day....thus is true with your sexuality.
on a personal note, i experimented with my own gender....and personnally i do find females attractive but i find males more attractive.....i cannot see myself being with anyone but a male as a mate but i will still comment on other females...now that may be a female thing cuz most of my females friends do the same.....i dont know what guys do outside female pressence...hell for all i know you guys do the same hahahah :0)
and i have a lot of homosexual friends....in fact if my best friend was a man....i'd be putting the moves on her hahahhaha...trying to get her to give lessons to guys cuz.....no offense...ya'll are clueless when it comes to the "lil things" us females want and need from ya'll :0)
anywhoo.....seriously....experimenting is part of life.....dont feel ashamed....feel blessed that you have a great close friend that is willing to experiment with you to help ya figure out where you need to be in life and feel grateful that he too has the same issues youre facing......its great you two have each other to share your curiosity...but ultimately it is up to each of you personally where you are and what you want in life and where your sexuality lays.....hell, ya both could be bi-sexual.....it's an option not a judgement.
i neva judge...not my job :0)
good luck in life....have fun and explore it with the openess you already have :0)
take good care
marjenl72
2006-12-09 19:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by marjenl72 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
at this moment in time, i must agree with the majority of other readers here, and say that it sounds very much like you are both bi-curious, and what the hell business is it of ours, if that is what you guys wanna do in your own privacy? i only wish i was there to help you out a little more...hands on kinda help =D Happy Days dude!!
2006-12-10 00:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be "Gay" is a lifestyle, not an experiment. I find nothing wrong with experimenting, as long as you take safety precautions. You find out more about your likes and dislikes through your experiments. Thus, you find out more about yourself. Finding out more about yourself is the most important thing. Don't stop with sex. Try diet, exercise, etc...
2006-12-11 06:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. J.S. G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most boys experiment alongside others....this is where the term circle jerk comes from....boys jacking off together. In my opinion, though, a certain line gets crossed if you suck or receive. Then I believe you become bi-sexual especially if you enjoy it and don't mind it. Yet still, who really cares. It's your life. Live it to the fullest!!!!
2006-12-10 01:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if u experiment every so OFTEN with male friend>>> yet like women 100% u r bisexual, but eventually through out time u will find out whats ur sexual preferance>> maybe men, women, or both>> given that u enjoy a man yet like women
only time will tell since ur experimenting ;)
2006-12-09 19:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by femylatina 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So what? It's all good. It doesn't matter what other people think. It's how you feel inside. If you feel 100% hetero, then you are. There is nothing wrong with experimentation. There is nothing wrong with mutually and consensually getting off with another human being. There is also nothing wrong with being curious. What you and your friend do is nobodies business anyway.
Take it easy.
2006-12-09 19:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by sydney77 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not gay, I'm not gay either, but I do wish I had a friend like you or yours. I am Bi though... hmmm, think about it.
2006-12-10 00:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋