Why am i feeling lonely?

Question

I am 18, good looking and ambitious. I know some people but i can't consider any of them as a friend but i really want to get close to them.
I have kind of trouble meeting new people but i sometimes manage to get over it.
Am always feeling lonely and feeling that nobody cares about me or loves me even if they say they do.
Can anybody help me to get over this and give me some advice?

Answer 1

I know how you are feeling, I am in the same boat. Let me tell you though that no matter how you feel, there is always someone who cares for you and loves you. I am sorry you are going through this, but if it helps, I care and I don't even know anything about you. If someone who doesn't even know you can care, think about how much the people who do know you can care about you.

Answer 2

Well you can start by looking for groups that you share a common interest with. The library is a great place to look for this kind of info. They post all kinds of groups, their interests and focuses, meeting schedules, times and places. There are others just like you so despair, you just need to meet them and things will grow from there. To start you off if you want to I do accept e-mail and don't panic, I'm old enough to be your mother (and that's a true fact).

Answer 3

You are shy there is no shame in that but, try to go to more outings or something. And dont look like you are afraid of ppl open up alittle bit. talk to ppl that are the same age or a little bit over and maybe you will find something in common trust me im not very social either but you cant have that destroy your life. Go out there, there are plenty fish in the sea.

ALL THE LUCK

Answer 4

It sounds like you are pretty shy and may have social anxiety. Try to come out of your shell and socialize with people. Go out more on outings with your peers or coworkers or close family members and try to pick someone outgoing who can help introduce you to those new friends you are seeking.