this guy met me via net...we mailed,chatted..even for three long hours...then we decided to talk on the phone...well
that was quite unfortunate for me...my parents recieved the phone,and as i have always been telling them that I have only got to the net for studying…but I made friends with him and now they came to know that I have e-friends as well…I was very ashamed
..he phoned me three times but I cudnt meet him,…now when I did,…my mum n dad were angry with me..n said I was making a fool outta myself,…all conversations of mine have been stopped….i dunno why?
Any ideas how I might be able to contact him and speak to him again? I mean I can always mail n chat but now even that too has been stopped for me. my parents were angry with me bout what I used the net for…is this justified? Cant I speak to him? I cant meet him as we both live in two diffrnt districs…my mum cut up the phone when I was speaking to him n I cudnt even say…good bye..that was too bad!i really am feeling I did
2006-12-09 19:21:16 · 17 answers · asked by catty 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just to continue...
not deserve that!
How bad wud he have felt? I’m feeling very sorry now…I cant even phone him back unless I am out of my house.
I have got some ideas though…I can have him phoning as other e-frnds so they get used to it…or something but I really need a way out! I cant just go n talk to my parents that wudnt do at all…n I love them so much I cant hurt them too,.so I don’t wanna be untruthful to them! Plz help…
2006-12-09 19:21:56 · update #1
hey look! he is not a stalker or anything!!!
and neither am i in love with him....
he is just a friend,...whom i wanna talk to...nothing else at all///
2006-12-09 21:40:52 · update #2
Put him on your yahoo list and when you are instant messaging back and forth you can click on the button that says voice and you can talk to each other free.
2006-12-09 19:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I feel for you...
However, please understand that your parents are just trying to protect you! You may not realize it, but the person you have been talking to could be a stalker who would take advantage of you, kidnap you or hurt you in some other way. You have no way of knowing for sure since he is completely anonymous over the internet. You MUST be VERY careful about any information you give out to ANYONE on the internet.
It sounds like you have grown attached to this person, but it would be wise not to pursue meeting with this person especially alone! That would be most unsafe for you!
Please be truthful with your parents and if you want to meet this person, have one of your parents go along. That would ensure your safety! If the guy doesn't want you to have your parent come along, then he has something to hid and it would be best to not meet him.
It sounds like you have a good relationship with your parents, that is good! cherish that! not everyone is lucky enough to have that kind of good relationship.
I wish you all the best and hope that you will use your head and common sense to do the best thing and keep yourself safe!
2006-12-09 19:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by bogey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I do believe your love will conquer. Obviously your country's customs have stepped in your way. Lately the change that has been happening might loosen them up a bit. What I do believe is you pestering her parents is not going to solve it. For some reason they do not view you as a proper mate for her. Step back and see if you can figure out why. Behavior is judged. Change the less than trusted behavior and take on a new course of action. Play to their tune instead of yours. At least when they are present. Hate to say that, but you want to overcome an ingrained custom. Check yourself and enter from a different door. This custom has some very good aspects to it. Respect the family for approaching marriage on a family level. They have the wisdom, listen and learn.
2016-05-23 01:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents have a right to be concerned about who you meet and chat with on the Internet. There are a lot of predators in here. If this guy is for real and you really like him invite him to your home to meet your parents so they can see for themselves. If you intend to meet him before that only do so in a public place and and best if you had a guy friend with you. Think smart and stay safe.
2006-12-09 19:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by patti duke 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy your parents didn't take your computer away from you! What the hell were you thinking meeting a guy that you met on the internet. Haven't you been watching T.V lately, and see the commercials about the girls that get killed for meeting ppl on-line. You should be thanking your parents for cutting off all connections to him, you are very foolish for doing that. You should go thank your parents right now. All your parents are trying to do is protect you and you shouldn't be questioning them for that!
2006-12-09 19:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by zoiy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to not lie to ya..... I think that u should not talk to him, i think your mom n dad is doing that for safty, some times people online talk they start to meat each other some where and the person do something to u, u cant never tell what going to happen u dont relly know if they bad or good they might lie to u saying i am so nice but relly they not..... so if I was u I would go with my mom n dad.
2006-12-09 19:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by Joma D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents tell them how you are feeling and that you would like to know him with their approval and would they allow you to met him in front of them so that then they too can see this man is ok Or go to an internet shop, send a message to him asking him to contact your parents to prove that he is ok and not monster. Or you could send him a letter if you know where he lives or even go and see him face to face
2006-12-10 06:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre parents are trying to protect you. I dont know how old he is but if he is over 18 you could get him into trouble with the law. You need to back off and obey your parents.
2006-12-09 19:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry its a easy job to make ur parent understand abt ur s feeling abt him & his felling 4 u call his parents to ur home an get the + results frm parents
or
i dont no how close u r if it fall in luv then no one can stop u to meet,talk an freek out with him nor urs not his parents
or
just go to ur parents an talk abt him ki i wan to marry him thts it
all d best
2006-12-09 19:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by anuj009 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Control your desire be with your parents wishes they need you and you need them . Before going with some one you should know it best he would care for you and love you for long only if he knows you ve got good family backing.
2006-12-09 19:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by midas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋