I hold a 3 year diploma from a Swiss school and tons of experience in my area of expertise. What I dont have is a Bachelor's degree, because I couldnt afford my last year of school. So, a couple of weeks ago, I gave an interview to a high-power firm. I lied about having a degree, because I wanted the job oh-so-much. I couldnt sleep and fessed up to the Senior Associate of the new company a few minutes ago. I now await their response. Was confessing a right thing to do? Or did I just kiss goodbye a grand career opportunity?
2006-12-09 19:17:04 · 15 answers · asked by Weeptiedoo 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
Oooh by the way, I havent started this job, Im just in the interviewing process. :( I presently HAVE a job with a competitor firm!
2006-12-09 19:27:17 · update #1
Bamma an expert. Bamma see two things unfolding. One thing they know you cannot keep a lie. Bamma say in big business zipper lips a must. Bamma say they also see an honest person. Bamma say they know you never rip them off. Bamma say they know you be loyal. Bamma say it a doggy world. Bamma say your experience will get you the job. Bamma say they give you shot. Bamma say they have something on you. Bamma say that all they need. Bamma say congratulations on your new career. Bamma say so.
2006-12-09 19:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow, that's a tough spot to be in. I know all these people have their opinions, but you never know what you'll do until you're in the same situation.
Overall- for conscience and Karma sake, you did the right thing by making things right. I guess that at this point, it's up to the SA or whoever is in charge of hiring- maybe they'll see that you're honest and that you're worth having as an employee. There are a few pros and cons here, that's for sure.
Just next time, your best bet would be to do what I did (I just got hired at an awesome job- I've got experience in the same field- but not with car parts) anyway, I told the guy that I need this job, bad. I said I knew enough about car parts to get by- but if he gave me more time, I'd learn more... but just being honest and open like that, made all the difference in the world. I get to start Monday.
I hope things go well for you. I sure wish I could know how this turns out.
2006-12-10 03:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by Andy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fessing up was the right thing to do, and you know that. You would not have done so if you thought that it wasn't They would have found out one day, anyway. When that day would have come would have kept you on pins and needles for the duration. You would have been doing things with the money, like changing your lifestyle for the better, and enjoying the fruits. All of that would have come to an abrupt end. Then what?
I fell short of one year from finishing my degree in Chemistry, and couldn't get a job because of that in that field, not even as a lab assistant. Though I had the knowledge, no degree = no job, and I looked for years while taking odd jobs to support myself. It would have been easier to lie, but my integrity would not allow me to. I eventually gravitated into work as an automotive mechanic, and auto detailer. I went to school for Automotive Technology, and got my diploma with a 3.90 GPA. Then I became Master certified. That got me employed making the money that I like making, with potential to make more. I'm now poised to return to school to complete the degree, or get one in Biology, which ever comes fastest. I think that I'd rather have an MBA, so I'll apply to a business school after I get that first degree. There are always options, and you don't have to fabricate anything to get yours.
2006-12-10 03:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by istthomasjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am an Executive Chef, and it is a pretty typical thing for me to see applicants lye on there application. Most I do turn away for the simple reason that if you put on an application that you have experience that you don't really have I can't trust you, and trust is a huge part of what any employer is looking for in an employee. The reason why trust is key is any employer needs to be secure in that person abilities if you lye, and I hire you than who is to say that won't cost me somewhere down the road. Schooling is part of that experience, and if I gave the interview I would not hire you. I would be straight foward (not make you wait), and say thank you for being honest but you did lye on the application good luck to you. Part of life's lessons, and lying on an application (even though you admitted to doing it) is an example of the first rule of what not do when you go in for an interview to land a job.
2006-12-10 03:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by foxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you didn't. A career refers to a long time job and when you've worked at a company for a long time your bound to run into things. You would have been stuck with a job and not a career if you were not honest. You did the right thing. There are plenty of opportunities for smart people. Be confident in your abilities, not depleted in credentials.
There are millions of companies. Rest assured that your honesty and your concern for your career are not traits shared by most applicants.
2006-12-10 03:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by rickpeet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By not being straightforward up front and later confessing the truth, yes, you have jeopardized your chances, and here's why: knowing that you lied up front and later confessed will have the hiring manager curious as to whether you're going to be doing that on a regular basis.
It is always best to tell the truth up front. And if you do not meet one or two of the position's requirements, it is best to see if you have something comparable to offer, such as experience in place of education.
2006-12-10 04:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by ballarke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck. But if you're let go at least you have a clear conscience.
I would've waited more than two weeks, though, to set my mark in the company and prove to them that I'm indispensable. Then I would've appeared honest (more-or-less) and I'd probably have a job too.
Hopefully they'll appreciate your honesty and let you stay.
2006-12-10 03:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While it's good to be honest because they can fire you the MOMENT they find out that you lied on your application, if your job is anything that requires a trust - i.e. handling money or confidential material - you're unlikely to be hired. Keep looking.
2006-12-10 03:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Lex 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing...i guess. The right thing to start with is to have stated that in the original interview but you did fix it after you realized you had done the wrong thing. So, yes you did the right thing evantually.
2006-12-10 03:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You won't get a job with that company. Why would they hire you, you lied and what else would you lie about.
2006-12-10 08:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by T O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋