He is the only thing that means something to me and she is taking it away. I'm feeling angry...
2006-12-09 19:11:12 · 28 answers · asked by Kristina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dont get your hands dirty, if you are as important and meaningful for him as he is for you he wont expose you to get hurt, report her, she's treatning you, you are affraid, and that's a crime, whats goin to happen if you do fight??, you will fight someone will get hurt and then what??, is your relationship goin to be saved because of it??... there's no winners!! and violence doesnt fix things it just makes em worst!! (Do you agree with war??)
Take care of yourself girl, u are still very young (i bet you are a teenager), you know a lot, but there's always something new to learn, and you'll see that if your relatonship doesnt work, you will grow with this experience and you will find love again...
2006-12-09 19:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by AbRiL 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok. 1. if he is the only thing that means something to you then you need to work on you in the first place.
2. If he loves you it won't matter how much this other girl wants to fight you for him he's going to be with you.
3. if he's going to sit back and watch you and some other girl fight over him then you really, really really need to get a new bf because this guy isn't worth your time.
2006-12-09 19:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Vince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So like, you girls fight each other for guys, winner drags him home by the hair? If he's you're boyfriend why is this even an issue. He should be speaking up here not waiting for a fight to end, winner takes all. A real guy wouldn't do that...if he can't see it for himself tell him to set this other girl straight...he needs to make her understand he;s not the prize in some stupid school yard fight.
2006-12-09 19:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by patti duke 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry to much about fighting for him since you asssume that you are not strong enough, All women are strong. Thing is you are smarter than this child. Have a chat with your boyfrien and let him make the choice. This girl would not fight you because she fantasises about your man. It goes deeper. Play them both like fidles. All this comes from the heart as this is exactly what i have done about two months ago and today I am a happier womem with my boyfried.
2006-12-09 19:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by Glow with the flow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship and feelings on both sides are strong enough you won't have to fight for your relationship.
If your b/f is seeing this girl to then let him go, you need someone that shares the same feelings and it sounds like you are young so there are plenty more b/f on the way. Trust me.
On another note: No man is worth a physical fight over, just remember what I said, you don't have to fight for love that is mutual, he should be the one to set her straight, not you.
2006-12-09 19:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So the two of you fight and he is the prize?
If he thinks this is okay then he is not worth your time. If he cares about you then you wouldnt have to fight anyone for the priviledge of being with him.
By caring so much about him you are giving him power over your life. Take back your power girl!!! Care about yourself before anyone else.
2006-12-09 19:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy Old Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the dumbest idea ever.
Do not attempt to fight a girl over a boy. If he cares about you, he'll stay with you. Fighting her isn't going to change his feelings one way or the other.
2006-12-09 19:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guy is worth fighting for because if it gets to that point he should interfere so you should say, yes you can have him if he wants you and walk away. If he likes(loves) you , he will tell her he doesn't like her and walk right back to you.
2006-12-09 19:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for this moment, ask your boyfriend who he really wants..
then if he chose you,, i think it's natural for a guy to protect a woman, right?
but if he don't there's no other choice than to fight the girl with full of confidence...
practice and practice what will you say so that you would be able to forget it when you're face-to-face
2006-12-09 19:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by blue_lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't the cave man days. What does the boy think about this? If he is for it then he isnt worth keeping. If he isnt for it then he needs to tell her to get lost.
2006-12-09 19:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋