My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U
2006-12-09 19:04:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He seems to be in 2 frames of mind.. some kind of obsessiveness.. he obviously doesnt want anyone else to have you, yet he doesnt treat you with respect. Try talking to his friends, try and find out whats going through his head, it could just be jealousy. He might just still be holding a grudge cause you danced with that guy. Regardless of the situation, you dont deserve to be abused. take care=)
2006-12-09 19:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by l2onaldinho1010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save the messages and get some self-esteem. Do you care if he thinks you're cheap? You shouldn't. He's an abuser. Put the distance between you and if he won't leave you alone stop using the IM account and create a new one.
EDIT: I meant to mention that you should save the messages for the police if he continues to harass you. DEFINITELY don't let it go on.
2006-12-10 03:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Lex 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents ,call the police ,this guy is the enemy ,not a friend you must fight back ,when he is nice he's only tricking you and using you .stand up to him with you families help ,also involve the police ,get a protective order and don't contact him.take him out of you contact list .
2006-12-10 03:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.) Why do you care about this guy?
2.) It's illegal to threaten someone like that and it's illegal to abuse someone. You should call the police if he does that again.
Anyways, stay away from him and don't even respond to him.
2006-12-10 03:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy could end up killing you! You must end all contact. Take him off your list so you can't "accidentally" IM him. Get help from a domestic violence shelter -- tell them what's going on and get advice.
2006-12-10 06:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like i said the last time you complained about him... stop contacting him and move on! Change your number, whatever it takes.
2006-12-10 03:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋