I m in confusion...plz help???

Question

I m a skool gal...yesterday in a skool party....I have met one of my old friend (let A)who has changed the skool in previus session but is my very good friend...we are connected by phone and net...but i have met him yesterday after 6-7 months....and i have got another very good friend (let B), who is better friend than A this session. both of them had came late in the party and when i meet both i have given lil more importance to B than A.I was meeting after a long interval to A whereas i meet B daily. So my ques is ...have i dont wrong .., is he hurted by me?

both are my just friends but very good friends but B is better as i have mentioned b4.

Plz help guyz.

Both of them doesnt know eachother.

B is better coz of his nature..he is much more caring, honest , and good friend of mine...while A is rich more but still i like B more.

Answer 1

hey why are you thinkin abt this? u are closer to B so u hung out with him. and u were talking to A also rite, it isnt like u ignored him completely!! and is he being rich even a point here-- is he gonna use his powers to harm u for not talking to him?
i think it is better than being with a person (A) and looking out for someone else or given them an impression that u are pathetically bored!! that wud have been a slap rite across his face (A).

and to answer ur question - u or none of us here who dont even know how sensitive A is or what kind of a person he is. so if anyone can answer that question is Mr.A himself!! if u are still perturbed by the whole thing then go ask him.

Answer 2

Hi sneha,
First I will appreciate your communication skill. Even though you are studying in school, you are aware of Usage of I.Net. OK let us come to the point, Its nothing wrong with your side. B'coz, When we meet an old friend-A and new friend-B (present & regular) at a same time, there is no doubt we should give importance to B-old friend (though we are meeting after long time). After that you want to explain about him-A to the present friend-B. If B behaving with good, he will understand U. But, you have the responsibility to explain about A. Then only U are a open minded. If you didn't tell about A to B till now, just do it first. I hope he will understand. Good bye, Take care. Jai Hind.
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Answer 3

It is always hard to meet someone after a long period of time (even if you are connected). You were more open to B person becuase you have seen them a lot. If you see A a lot then you would be the same way. But, for now just let things unravel and look for signs from your A and B people.

Answer 4

Dear sneha

Friendship is not for little time or days or weeks or years. If u continue friendship with both boys, then what prob. with U. Sorry because u not mentioned here clearly that A were ur friend only or more than friend. and B is friend only or more than friend.

now u understand how can tackle with both guys. because A is still in connection with u. so, why hurry to left him. check and decide.
best of luck
OM

Answer 5

it wd have better if u hv mentiond ur age, coz age matters when it comes to take important decisions, I suggest "Analyse wid cool mind" what importance u r giving to B n thinking he is better than A. If only handsome n money makes B better than A, MIND u r wrong. If A is a good natured boy n having no bad habits he is better. but thr is no need to compare coz u can hv frendship wid both, till u think abt serius relation, n i suggest dont go 4 any serius relation at this age. BYE.

Answer 6

u mentioned both r friends. u should not creat discrimination between friends. they may not be knowing each other. If given a chance to u, u would conclude that u want to live with B..than A. Loving is different, friendship is different. Make it very clear to A & B. U will not hav problem atleast in future. and u will have both of their company in ur future, if u r more clear what u want.

Answer 7

It's okay. What's done is done. Friends do change with sessions and you yourself find B a better friend than A. So, it is perfectly okay. If A was hurt, perhaps he should know how to define 'friendship' better. A being rich doesn't matter if he is just a friend.

Answer 8

i don't think you have done any thing wrong.it is natural human instinct .you are closer to B coz you meet him daily whereas you just talk to A on phone so it is natural as there are so many things to share when you talk to a person everyday and in person.so dint worry.
if A feels offended, it would simply mean that now he doesn't understands you anymore. so be happy and stop worrying

Answer 9

A is your good friend-- if he is hurt i am sure you will be able to sense it in his behaviour. [in future]. just wait and see. if you feel slightly guilty, then clarify if he is cold towards you. otherwise dont worry.HE is also very young-- so he may have got hurt-
unfortunately, in the case of friendship, proximity makes us to be more inclined to the particular person--B in your case. Afterall, A might have also have had new friends.
evrything deepends on the intensity of affection. JUST SHELVE THE PROBLEM-- TIME WILL CLARIFY--if you have a big test or exam approaching all these problems will take a back-seat.

Answer 10

if you go to school then focus more in class and learn how to spell and use correct grammer. It's not cool to write like that, it's stupid, and you don't want to be stupid your whole life.

And yes, that was very rude of you. Old friends are the best friends.
If he used to be such a good friend, then you should of had alot to catch up on.