I have this friend and we have been GOOD friends since first grade and she began to be friends with this other girl and we were cool but she started drama and im not going to take that but every chance she gets she tries to take my friend away from me [it was like that even when we were cool] and i dont know because we used to be best friends and i dont know if i should take it or fight back or just make new friends as i say my friend knows that shes ditching me and being mean but i dont know what to do? be mean to both of them and make new friends? i feel like ill regret being pathetic by trying to win her back and id regret throwing away our friendship thats been soo long. the only thing is i know im not talking about it with her. she already knows so its pointless. any advice?
2006-12-09 18:38:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Seems to me that she already threw your friendship away. I would just ignore her and make new friends. She doesn't sound like a very good friend. Be polite to her despite everything. If she is rude, turn your back and walk away. She sounds like she is jealous of you and wants to compete for friends. As for the other girl, I'd do the same thing. It doesn't sound like you guys were really cool when you thought you were cool because she did this back then too. Hope that helps.
2006-12-09 18:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by Kristen H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't u just tell that girl to back off? If your friend tries to defend her, then just say, "No way! You and I have been friends since 1st grade! You and her have been friends for how long, huh? Why don't you care about our friendship anymore? Is it because you're tired of me?", then turn to that ***** and say something like, " Just back off our friendship, ok? Your just jealous of me and her because you never had a best friend before, isn't that right? Also, you can't just steal someone's best friend just to make the other person jealous, ok *****? Stay away from my best friend", try and sound like you mean it. Also, don't look away from her face, or else she's gonna start making fun of u, Sorry if this doesn't work out.
2006-12-09 18:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by clandestine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well i sort of dealt with the same thing. I think you should act as though it doesnt faze you and go out and make new friends - true friends. These dont sound like true friends if they are treating you like this, dont get in a huge fight with them, or argue just act completely calm.
My motto 'surround yourself with people that make you happy'
Im sure you will find better friends, Good Luck!
2006-12-09 18:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by yahoooooooooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her. I'm not saying this so that I can easily finish the answer. Even I was in such a situation and I left my friend. If now you will apologise to her she will think you are weak and will always search for opportunities to make you guilty and you will always be behind her because of the fear that she will make other friends and you will lose her.
2006-12-09 18:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by chics are cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound too young to know that this is normal. it happens to everybody, especially after you graduate and drift apart. you just move on, make more friends to make up for the one that's ignoring and just accept it. i know I wouldnt wanna tag along with somebody who's ditching me. they'd just get more annoyed. im sure you have lots of friends so dont complain because believe me, it happens to EVERYONE. or you could do the childish teenage her thing and make her jealous with your new and growing popularity and coolness. lol
2006-12-09 18:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by yrsosketchy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends,,if the old friend comes back to you,,ok.If not,,oh well.
2006-12-09 18:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends...
2006-12-09 19:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make new frends.
2006-12-09 18:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋