They tend to go through phases. First they love me, then they admire me and then the hate me...Why? What am I doing wrong.
2006-12-09 18:22:05 · 9 answers · asked by Olive 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Oh? Are you yourself who is thinking that? Sounds like mostly it's not. Talk to them! Ask them why! The very first and important step of solving this problem is knowing the source of the problem itself. Talk to your family too. "Do I have something wrong that make people hate me?".
Then I'll advise you, don't push yourself too hard, don't doubt yourself. After all, everyone is different. But you can change some things that perhaps others are annoyed about. Like the proverb: Do what all men do and they will think well of you. To be a true person is to mix with this different world of different people despite you being very different yourself.
But I'd rather not resort to this alternative: Perhaps they are coping to hate you, or perhaps after a while they hang out with you, they found out that you are superior to them, and they get jealous and reject you. Perhaps... Good luck, I do hope you'll get along, and make the right friends!
2006-12-09 18:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Cherant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the question you asked, it shows that you do not know yourselves well enough, it is confirmed by your own question "What am I doing wrong" To answer your question, it is in yourselves, what ever you do, you know it for certain that you do it for the good purpose and honesty, then you will have no burden anymore, what others think about you. If you do nice things to others and others give you the opposite (not likely), you can not stop it, since you can not control other people's mind. The key in your case, do you have honesty, if you do, it should be no problems for you and for others.
2006-12-09 20:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by he he he 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay. Actually if you look back in history most of the major pioneers of modern thought were either hated or jailed at one point or another.
Its okay to not be popular in your thoughts and ideals: most of the great thinkers (Augustine, Nieztche, Socrates, Dostoyevsky, etc).
You might not be popular in your lifetime, but I think your legacy will be felt and you have an obligation to the future of the human race to express your opinions, however unpopular they may be perceived by the mainstream media.
2006-12-09 20:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you put on an act at first, and then turn into who you really are?
Or, maybe you are a confident sucesfull person, and it ends up bad because they are jealous?
Need a little more info here...
2006-12-09 18:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by Cris Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thoroughly agree. And a minimum of 0.5 of those haters are closet followers who say they hate her to be cool. Like i think of she's completely underrated, and that i think of her form's impressive too. And Miley haters ruined my self belief to speak approximately what i like. and that i additionally think of she's humorous and a physically powerful female.
2016-10-14 09:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by croes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One must do something, say something or be something to cause another to hate the one.
Hate has a cause.
One must discover the cause.
Then, and only then, one will know the why.
Be careful of knowing the why. The knowledge of the why can cause hate in the one.
And the cycle continues...................................
2006-12-09 18:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by JRC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone might have an ego problem.
2006-12-09 18:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by I like Chinese food 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you expect people who've never met you or know your normal behavior, to answer this question?
2006-12-09 18:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People hate because of jealousy, fear. They are jealous of what you have and fearful of what you can do with it.
2006-12-10 15:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋