Please help me. Should I still be her friend? what do u think about this? Would you consider this against our friendship? I don't know what to do! :(
2006-12-09 18:20:49 · 25 answers · asked by Icygoodies 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that is extremely inconsiderate of your 'friend'
I would tell her that you are unhappy with what she did because it's very inconsiderate, considering you only just broke up the day before.
just tell her how you feel, and judging on how she responds, you will know if you still want to be friends with her, or if you just need a break from each other for a while.
it's possible you can resume your friendship, once she has stopped being so rude.
I think this happens from time to time with younger people, because their relationships are not always at a serious level.
But I understand, that you're feelings are still hurt, and that is totally valid in my opinion.
2006-12-09 18:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ambience 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your boyfriend cheated on you. Because, your friend would've waited to ask him out if he didn't cheat. I think that u should talk to ur best friend and ask her why she did that. Tell her to be honest with u, and NO LIES. Say that u can tell if she lies: She will say that she didn't cheat, but she won't make eye contact that much. If u know that she's lying, then suprise her by saying, "I knew it! U are such a liar, u are my best friend, why the hell did u do this?", get her really suprised. Though, don't call her a *****, she might get too offended. Yes, i would consider this against your friendship. This is kinda happening to me right now. My friend, her name is Jessica, and my crush is named Kristian. She says that she doesn't like him, but I could tell that she was lying because she would never go away from Kristian whenever he comes near her. This really hurts me even though Kristian isn' t really my boyfriend. Just try and follow my advice and talk to her in PRIVATE. Maybe your house, her house, a park, your secret hanging out place if u have one. If she doesn't listen to u, then I'm sorry about this advice.
2006-12-09 18:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by clandestine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the best thing is to do nothing at all. See what happens when you show up with a guy on your arm. If it was meant to be then he will realize the beauty he has lost. If it was not meant to be you did the correct thing by dumping him. Your friend, unless she did something behind your back, should still be your friend and she should act mature about it. Talk to here if she is really a good friend.
TJ
2006-12-09 18:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by Any Key! Push Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your "best friend" cares more about this boy than she does your friendship. If you still value your friendship and don't want to lose her as a friend then you need to confront her nicely and tell her that it bothered you that she asked out your ex-boyfriend. Friendships, like relationships, take work too, and communication is a big part of friendships. Hopefully she will apologize for what she did and be able to regain your trust. But please promise me that you'll never let your friends walk all over you, because they will if you let them. She needs to know that this was inappropriate. If you still care about her, talk to her. It'll be hard, but you'll be glad you did.
2006-12-09 18:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by Quintessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that its cruel and against the unwritten but biggest rule of friendship you do not do that if you are a true friend. no she is not a friend of yours any more why did you break up with him if it was for something serious like he was cheating on you then let her have him if they do it once they will do it again you need to get a new and true friend dump her like you dumped him you don't need that kind of people in you life they just make a complicated life unbearable
2006-12-09 18:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by Margie V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's appearing like a common teenage boy. Many individual adult males are nonetheless like this. He hasn't done some thing quite incorrect the following as well kissing the different chick on the forehead, only being a flighty forgetful guy. The forehead kiss isn't even quite that undesirable in any respect, its extra brotherly than some thing else. And the no longer texting situation is going both thoughts.. have you ever texted him?
2016-11-25 02:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by delosreyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not ok. She is f-ed up. I JUST had this happen to me last night, so I totally know how you feel. No matter how you look at this, it's just not ok. She's not a good friend, so no point in keeping the frienship. Best of luck!
2006-12-09 18:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kristina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe exes are completely out of bounds but I do think that out of respect, your friend should have came to you first and accepted the answer you gave her. She should have aso waited a while for your breakup to not be so fresh in your and your exes minds.
2006-12-10 01:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow your friend is a bi-otch!! Did she ever try and persuade you to dump him? If she did, it was probably for her own selfish reasons. Anyway, talk to her, figure out her motives, tell her how you feel, and then DUMP HER A**!
2006-12-09 18:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by Dark_Night 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how involved you were with your boyfriend, how long you went out and how it ended. If you were involved a long time and it ended badly it could interfere with your friendship.
If he didnt mean that much to you then I wouldnt ruin a friendship over it.
2006-12-09 18:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋