it's been 6 months since we've talked and everyday i still think about my ex at least once a day. i ended the relationship because he lied about where he was, smokes, and is in a gang, and its hard to talk to his freidns cuz they dunt speak englihs! we were seeig each other for about 6 months. we never really kissed, or held hands. but i no we liked each other a lot......yeah man omg he was almost 21. and i was 18. HELPME..WHAT IS THIS i'm goign thru? why do i think abvout him everyday stilll??
2006-12-09 18:11:09 · 8 answers · asked by san francisco grl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Simple answer...to get rid of something, replace it with something else. So, get another boyfriend, quickly...or just throw yourselff into dating a bunch of other guys so you can fill your head, and heart, with other people.But first, congratulate yourself for honoring yoursel by dumping him. You were honest with yourself...which is more than we can say about him. Don't waste your time on people who won't honor you the say you want to be honored.
2006-12-09 18:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mainly because you have gotten used to him and there are somethings you really like about him yet there are also somethings you question about him. You are in that period of trying to decide if the good outweights the bad and if he is worth the risk. Remember,,,all relationships have ups and downs, good moments and bad,,,sad times and happy times. Ask yourself, are you a person that can be a positive influence in his life and can you possibly bring a good change to his life? Are you stong enough to hang in there and fight the good fight? Can you boldly face him and point out his shortcomings and readily admit your own to him. In any case, always remember, there is someone out there that you will one day meet and spend the majority of your life with. Good Luck
2006-12-10 02:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel, i went through something very similar. It killed me when i broke up with the boy i thought about for ages everyday... and even though i have a bf now i still think about him at times (one year later).
The reason why you still think about your ex is that you never explored what your relationship potential could of been, it was cut short from his lies. Just so you know its not his lies that makes you think about him, its the fact that your never going to know what may have been.
The best thing to do is do your best to get him out of your life, delete him out of your phone, get rid of any songs that remind you of him, anything or anyone that reminds you of him too. Avoid him in every way possible. Its hard i know but its the only way you are going to get over him. Remember there was a reason you broke up with him, remind yourself that everytime you think about him, it will help you through the healing process.
You wont forget your ex completely, he will always be apart of your memory and you will think about him every now and again but it wont be because your in love with him it will be because of somebody who hurt you in the past.
He lied to you and made you feel awful, use that as education, you now know what love isnt! Chin up and take a step forward because if you keep thinking or wanting to be with your ex it will be one step forward and two steps back... just let it be one step forward... and etc.
2006-12-10 02:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by cheekee_bum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably still think about him because you haven't found someone else to occupy your time yet, therefore you think about what you used to have. Get over this guy and move on. You obviously had reason to break up with him in the first place, so you should stick with your decision.
2006-12-10 02:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by happy311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stop talking to him everyday stop talking to him all together you think about him every day because your not moving on from this bad relationship open your eyes this loser isn't going to find anybody better so of course he's clinging on to you and is trying to stay in your life change your number if you have to tell him its over. tell him that you want to move on and cut those ties burn that bridge why would you ever want to go back to that STOP him from being a part of you life its hard when you date some to just stop caring it is and your not going to be able to turn it off like a lite switch, but i don't know maybe go on some dates with other guys go out wiht your gf's and have some fun meet new people start a project forget this guy and cut him out of your life be your own person not his puppet that sits around waiting to talk to him every day
2006-12-10 02:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by <B> 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
looks like you dunt speak englihs very well either
2006-12-10 02:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by ~Happy~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him and find someone who is worthy of you. Keep yourself busy by meeting new people. I am sure you will find someone who really deserves you. Good Luck.
2006-12-10 02:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by GiGgLeS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will get over him with time ,.. try not to obsess about it... i still think about my ex and it has been 2 years... i loved him alot even though he lied did drugs and was pretty much nutz (he was bi-polar) but i have his son (and his family or him i guess dont believe me ,, so ??? lol)
2006-12-10 02:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋