We have exchanged photos, in fact we have exchanged a lot. He wants to meet me sometime real soon but I am so nervous. I am afraid once he gets a closer look at me he may just walk away...I'm not a dog but I have a few extra pounds on me. (My pic's I shared with him showed from my waist up) He keeps telling me the way I look doesnt matter..? Should i meet him or just drop it because I'm so shy and nervous?
2006-12-09 18:01:13 · 6 answers · asked by nurse33 3 in Consumer Electronics ➔ Music & Music Players
First Of all you should never again fall in these type of situation.
And I think you should meet him.
2006-12-09 18:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by arsenalsalam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first thing to be concerned about is your safety. Not that fear should prevent you from taking control of your destiny, but pepper spray is always a good plan B....just in case.
Second - all in all, the way others react to you is often influenced by how you feel about yourself. Think about the qualities you have that make you proud and make you smile and BRING IT! Sounds cheesy and overplayed, but confidence is huge. Remember one thing: You are the creation of the deepest desires of your heart - that is what influences everyone's actions. Your deep desires will probably reveal that you are a wonderful person, and if the guy does end up turning and going the other way, you know that you have only missed a chance with someone who could never see you for who you really are anyway.
Good luck and please be safe!
2006-12-10 03:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by Savannah B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you take this opportunity to lose those few extra pounds you've always wanted to? Go on a strict diet and exercise regimen for a few months, get your great figure back, boost your self confidence, and then arrange to meet. If it doesn't work out, you'll look so good, you won't care. LOL
Good luck, sweetie.
2006-12-10 03:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him so you really get to know him, because people lie over the net. Its really easy to say things when you can't see the other person, but once you meet them in person its harder to make things up.
He's probably a great guy, but you don't want to keep your relationship strictly web-wise, right?
Good luck!
2006-12-10 02:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Bre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i have seen about relationships like this, i say go for it
2006-12-10 02:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by outlaw_weasel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure that he's who he says he is
2006-12-10 03:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋