I would say being homeless for a week. I would sneak back into the building that I worked at and sleep under my cubicle. But that's not really the hardest thing I went through. The toughest was being a step mom to a family of kids ages pre-teen through early twenties. They had never received any discipline of any kind in their lives, their father treated me like a live in nanny or like I was the single parent with a billion kids tho they were all his, so it was hellish. Yes I was able to carry on if you call carrying on crying several times a day and ending up in the hospital repeatedly for dehydration, excessive stress, etc. So if carrying on means I didn't go hang myself then yes I was able to carry on through being a step mother.
2006-12-09 17:59:22
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answer #1
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answered by Gracie 1
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Well first my parents went through a divorce type thing when I was like 5 or 6, they never actually went through with it, but what they put us 5 kids through was well, hard, and then in 2004 they did it ALL over again but this time I actually knew what was going on!!
At least this time I could do something about anything, my mom told a whole load of CRAP to the courts and my dad was asked, I'm sorry, was escorted out of the house while we watched, I think that was the hardest thing I've eve had to see, and I couldn't even leave with him because my mom put a restraining order on him, and to my horror they got back together!!! Well for now everything seems alright but I'm just scared something like that might really hurt my dad and not to mention ME! Never the less I got through it with the help of God, and whatever happens don't ever run away from God, cast your cares on him, give your life to Jesus and trust me everything will be great. I promise!!! Jesus is the only way I was able to forgive my mom for the pain she inflected on my family!!
God Bless you!!
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And don't worry whatever your problem is or was it WILL get better over time!!
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If you live in San Diego and you need to talk to someone about your problem or something there is a church called Christion Worship Center, I go to this church myself and I love it.
2006-12-09 18:21:12
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answered by Freckel Face 2
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you can still carry on its just the past that is holding you back its like trying to pull an extra 100 pounds behind u but u can still carry on it will just be harder that's why these things happen so u can be stronger and pull yourself along then you can let it go if its nothing too serious then we will be stronger for the next thing even tho this dosent have anything to do with ur question its just some advice about some hard things in life
2006-12-09 17:58:10
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answered by largesarge789 1
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The hardest thing i've had to go through was my brothers death in yes I was able to carry on "I know he is in a better place" whatever it is your going through it will be aright God has a reason for everthing he does.
2006-12-09 17:55:09
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answered by Hawk474 4
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I'd say it would be when my Mom broke her leg three years ago and she's diabetic so it didn't heal right and she is permanently in a wheelchair the rest of her life. She was not very old when she had her accident so I made the decision to take care of her to keep her out of a nursing home. She lives with me and my two kids. It's very hard dealing with her emotion because of being in a wheelchair and the limitations she has on herself. I'm also a single Mom and I have two kids to take care of plus my Mom every day after work.
The way I carried on is after all these years, I thought of how she took care of me and put up with my problems. I know that if something happened to me she would be there for me doing everything she could to take care of me. I guess it's a sacrifice I had to make in life but it made me think you only have one Mother and how would I of felt if I would have put her in a home. I know this makes her happy to have me here for her and that makes it worth all that I have to do for her.
2006-12-09 18:01:35
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answered by Holly B 2
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This probable doesn't sound that "demanding" in evaluation with the countless different memories you usually see in this cyber web web site and in books/video clips... even with the undeniable fact that it became transferring to the u.s. I moved the following from Israel the summer time earlier fifth grade and it became one of those vast replace. i became used to living 2 streets remote from my grandparents, uncles, aunts, tremendous-grandparents and perfect acquaintances. i became in a position to run round barefoot and purchase sweet on each and every occasion i had to swim interior the river that is going by the midsection of "city" (it really is only no longer a city), and bypass over to my acquaintances' abode on each and every occasion i wanted and to vacation my motorcycle round and performance to vacation in a vehicle (which I hated) perchance once a month or 2. yet after I moved the following I had to study a thoroughly new language, make new acquaintances, get used to a sparkling abode in a sparkling united states with thoroughly different human beings and way of life. It became puzzling, and nonetheless is slightly of, highly retaining in contact with the acquaintances and kinfolk that I leave out a lot decrease back abode... yet i'm so so satisfied I moved. My life may be no longer some thing if I hadn't, there are such quite some issues i does no longer have familiar about myself and such quite some human beings i'd by no skill have met if I hadn't moved. So yeah, particularly common, yet nonetheless. wish issues get extra perfect for you, and satisfied vacation trips (:
2016-11-25 02:02:45
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answered by delosreyes 4
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I lost my best friend & my girl friend at the very same time!!
Which was enough to call it the hardest time in my life!!
& Yes i could carry on coz u dont have any other option then moving ON & not weeping!!
I wish you luck for your hard days!!
U never loose everything, u just need to find them.... what u have inside your closed palm!!
never giveup... Good luck n keep smilin!
;-)
2006-12-09 18:00:48
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answered by `✪~ 5
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when my grandfather passed away. it was the middle of my senior year of highschool (late february) and it was totally unexpected. he and i were really really close and it hit me harder than a ton of bricks and a mack truck. i was totally floored. it ended up effecting my school work b/c i seriously went into a stage of depression. my friends were there for me and i was so grateful for that. there were moments where id just get fed up because ppl i knew had been told about what had happened, and i and my friends warned everyone we knew that id be a little rocky for a while b/c of what happened and some ppl still enjoyed getting on my case. (especially one girl in my orchestra...she always had a snotty attitude toward me) and i totally just ripped her apart one day. i was a section leader in my orchestra and we had a gig coming up and i just wanted them to work and things to go peacefully and she just didnt want to do anything and was being rude so i told her no one wanted to deal with her mouth and pms and that she could either stay and work, have her violin shoved so far up her @ss shed play bach as she walked, or she could walk out now and leave us alone.. she stayed and shut up.
after a couple months i slowly began to get back to normal. its really hard around the holidays without him around, but im better.
2006-12-09 18:40:29
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answered by amanda 2
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right now? hmm, it would have to either be my Grandfather's sudden and painful death from lung cancer, or else my very painful and sudden switching of schools when I was younger. Both very hard, but I was able to get on with my life. You;ll make it through, don't worry! If you need someone to talk to, you can talk to me. If I'm not online right at that moment, just wait, I'll be on within 24 hours! :)
2006-12-09 18:04:19
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answered by Alicia 2
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A divorce... it was long and nasty! It dragged me down,but, I got back on my feet and carried on as best I could. I am very happy now, with a wonderful new husband and a terrific marriage.
2006-12-11 06:23:52
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answered by nuttin'fancy 5
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