so i have the most over protective parents on the face of this earth.. i cant do ANYthing. like, no guys expecially. no guys calling, no calling guys, no talking to guys, no having guy friends, no textin guys, no boyfriends. nothing, well of course i go against this and my brother tells on me. so i get in trouble and lose everything. literally. and then they finally say they trust me again and RECORD my conversations on the phone with friend who happened to be talking about her sex life at the moment. now my dad told me not to go to school on monday because he is dropping me out of school&taking everything away. he is going to the phone place to get a list of every phone i have called or has called me in the past 3 months.. what the heck do i do? i am freakin 17 years old for god sakes.. i cant do anything, i cant go anywhere.. will this ever get better. i cant wait for another year.. this is killin me now. i'm losing everyone over my dumb parents.. especially the love of my life!!
2006-12-09 17:20:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Statistics show that overprotective parents just cause kids to rebel more. They can still control your lifestyle after you turn eighteen as long as you still live with them. Try talking rationally or suggesting family counseling, because a parent THAT controlling is only harming you. You have to live and learn and make your own mistakes, and it is the parents job to support you emotionally if you suffer from these mistakes, so that you can heal and grow. Condemning you for them would be very wrong. It will get better, but you need to gain your own independence first. That will take time and discipline, and don't make the mistake of marrying someone just to escape your parents. Most young people who do that just end up divorced. I say a little prayer for you and your parents, even though I,m not really religious. It can't hurt.
2006-12-09 17:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when you turn 18 and move out.
2006-12-09 17:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be outtie in a year! Hold your sexy chin up! Freedom awaits!
2006-12-09 17:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they love you so much they just dont want nothing bad to happen to you
2006-12-09 17:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by sexyshaquanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope it will never get any better!!!!!!!!!! ha sucks to be you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-09 17:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by james f 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋