What do u think?

Question

DO u THINK a cancer-girl and a sagtarius-boy would make a good couple even though me in my boyfriend have been together for 3 1/2 years its seems as if were growing apart when were together we dont talk we just watch tv or find something to argue about

Answer 1

Cancer and Sagittarius
When Cancer and Sagittarius make a love match, they both need to be patient and give the relationship time to grow and mature. As it develops, each love partner will discover that they have much to offer one another. At first, it just seems like Sagittarius is the thrill seeker who enjoys the occasional adrenaline rush, and that Cancer derives much more satisfaction from emotional security. Early in the relationship, Cancer may want more of a commitment than Sagittarius is willing to give. But as time goes by, Sagittarius will learn to appreciate the strong emotional support that Cancer offers.
These two lovers, Cancer and Sagittarius, have different approaches to life; Cancer lives on emotion and tradition, and Sagittarius is the restless wanderer. Cancer's emotional tidal wave can be difficult and overwhelming for Sagittarius to accept. And Cancer might be resistant to accepting their Sagittarian mate's restlessness and craving for external activities. A Cancer partner can offer a Sagittarius a secure home base, a place where Sag can go to keep their dreams and ambitions in perspective. The Sagittarius free spirit can lend Cancer's daily life a little diversity and excitement. The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and Jupiter (Philosophy) rules Sagittarius. The Moon is about love, nurturing and the maternal instinct. Jupiter focuses on expansion, optimism, luck and travel. Together this is combination of growth and expansion and of masculine and feminine energy; the two can sustain each other. When working toward a common goal, these two can combine their energies to great effect. Cancer is a Water Sign, and Sagittarius is a Fire Sign. Sagittarius desires freedom, while Cancer longs for emotional security and stability, and these basic needs color their approach to life, to projects and to relationships. One lover may not always get where the other lover is coming from, but when they put their complementary energies together, sparks can fly and dreams can come true. If they value their intimate connection and their friendship and respect one another's opinions, their conflicts can usually be resolved. Cancer is a Cardinal Sign, and Sagittarius is a Mutable Sign. Sagittarius moves from idea to idea and venture to venture as the feeling takes them, while Cancer is the instigator of new plans. A Cancer mate must give their Sagittarius lover the freedom to explore their own space and interests external to the relationship. Cancer can bring Sagittarius' great ideas to life, even if Sagittarius has lost interest and moved on. Sagittarius teaches Cancer the virtues of an open mind over constant and inflexible determination. What's the best part of the Cancer-Sagittarius love match? The security they can give one another (once Cancer gives Sagittarius the freedom to offer that security freely). They make a compatible couple once they open themselves up to one another and accept as valid each other's differing life philosophies. If the lines of communication remain open and clear, and as long as these two take time to appreciate and celebrate their differences, theirs will be a stable and happy relationship.
Cancer & Sagittarius
This match is not the best idea. Sagittarius seem so worldly, cultured, and educated, so versed on a wide variety of topics, that it is no wonder you were mesmerized by their sparkling conversation. Your Sagittarius likes to philosophize about such truly important issues in life: Why do bad things happen to good people? Is there such a thing as Fate? Can prejudice really be eradicated? Phew! Sagittarius' job is to ask the hard questions. It is no wonder you are enraptured -- when Sagittarius talk, Cancers will love to listen. But while you are spiritual and intuitive, Sagittarius are inherently intellectual and analytical. Your lover could dismiss your gut point of view as irrelevant nonsense, even though you know it's not. Sagittarius can also get arrogant and tactless. When you tell them you are hurt, they can retort, "Again?" They may make you feel like a bleeding heart or a nutcase. In bed you will discover how very different you really are. Your Sagittarius lover is all athletics and recreational fun, while you want to give and receive deeply moving, spiritual and emotional love. You can enjoy your Sagittarius lover, but I don't think you will feel ultimately nourished and cared for. If you love them nevertheless, it is possible you have certain planets in your chart that are compatible with theirs. They are a mutable sign -- very flexible -- so you might also get your lover to understand your viewpoint in time. Keep trying.
CANCER AND SAGITTARIUS
The Cancer/Sagittarius relationship is one where both individuals should be ready for a fight the second they enter the romantic arena, since there will certainly be constant bickering and arguments are sure to flourish. The Cancer partner must be prepared to emerge from his or her shell and live life to the fullest if he or she wants Sagittarius to stick around as the Sagittarius native has no time for anyone who wallows in the depths of sulking. Here, Sagittarius will expect Cancer to follow along with his or her ideas and engage in a very active social life. There is nothing a Sagittarius native adores more than having fun...his or her definition of "fun," of course. There will likely be times when the Cancer partner wishes to stay home...put the feet up and watch television. On such occasions, Sagittarius will try to talk Cancer into accompanying him or her. Should this fail, then the Sagittarius partner will simply go out on his or her own and find other excitement. By nature, Sagittarius is brimming with charm and also believes that personal freedom is paramount. Should Cancer take offense at this attitude or display a jealous reaction, then the Sagittarius mate will begin to feel as though he or she has made a serious mistake in choosing Cancer in the first place. Although the loving and nurturing manner of Cancer is what first attracted Sagittarius, it is not enough to keep this Sign faithful or true. In a physically romantic sense, Sagittarius is very active and, as a rule, Cancer is easily satisfied. Thus, the Sagittarius mate could begin to feel let down, depressed and unfulfilled. This is certain to send him or her in search of a new partner. In short, this is not a particularly favorable union.
The Cancer/Sagittarius combination is one where both individuals need to be patient and give the relationship time to grow and mature. If the affair is allowed to develop, then each will discover that they have much to offer the other. Initially, it simply appears as though Sagittarius is a thrill seeker who enjoys the occasional adrenaline rush and that Cancer derives far more satisfaction from emotional security. In the early days of the relationship, the Cancer individual is likely to desire more of a commitment than Sagittarius is willing to provide but with the passage of time, the Sagittarius native will learn to appreciate the strong emotional support that Cancer offers. These are two Signs that have very different approaches to life. Cancer survives on emotion and tradition...Sagittarius is a restless wanderer. The emotional tidal wave of Cancer can be difficult for Sagittarius to accept, to say nothing of overwhelming. On the other hand, Cancer might be resistant to accepting the Sagittarius mate's restlessness and craving for external activities. Nevertheless, a Cancer partner can offer Sagittarius a secure home base...a place where Sagittarius can go to keep dreams and ambitions in persepctve...and the free spirit of Sagittarius could well lend Cancer's daily life a little diversity and excitement. Cancer is ruled by the Moon and Sagittarius is ruled by the planet Jupiter. The Moon is concerned with love, nurturing and the maternal instinct. Jupiter is philosophical, focused on expansion, optimism, luck and travel. Thus, this is a combination of growth and expansion...of masculine and feminine energy. The two are able to sustain each other and when working toward a common goal, can combine energies to great effect. Cancer is governed by the element of Water while Sagittarius is governed by the element of Fire. Natives of Sagittarius desire freedom...Cancer natives yearn for emotional security and stability. These basic needs color each Sign's approach to life...to projects and to relationships. Here, one partner may not always understand where the other is coming from, but when they combine their complementary energies, sparks can fly and dreams can reach fruition. If each individual values the intimate connection they share...value the friendship and one another's opinions...then any conflict can usually be amicably resolved. Cancer is Cardinal in quality and Sagittarius is Mutable. Natives of Sagittarius move from idea to idea, venturing to venture as the spirit takes them. Cancer is the instigator of new plans. It will be important for Cancer to give Sagittarius the freedom to explore personal space and interests external to the relationship. Nevertheless, Cancer can breathe life into the magnificent ideas of Sagittarius, if Sagittarius has lost interest and moved on and Sagittarius does have the ability to teach Cancer the virtues of an open mind as opposed to constant and inflexible determination. Perhaps the best aspect of a Cancer/Sagittarius match is the security each can provide...once Cancer gives Sagittarius the freedom to freely offer such security. This could be a compatible couple if they open themselves to one another and accept as valid each other's differing life philosophies. Provided the lines of communication remain clear...and as long as these two take time to appreciate and celebrate their differences...this can make for a rather stable and happy union.In essence, this combination is not particularly favorable in terms of longevity. The Cancer partner is sure to adore everything about Sagittarius, but once the busy Sagittarius partner has been captured, Cancer may find him or her difficult to cope with. It will be virtually impossible for Cancer to keep Sagittarius close to home. To Cancer, home is his or her castle, but to Sagittarius, it is simply a place to hang around from time-to-time. Thus, although this relationship can be made to work, care needs to be taken and it should not be entered into lightly by either individual.
Cancer with Sagittarius
You are so unalike that you are fascinated by each other. Watery Cancer, flowing in a personal world of feelings and imaginings, finds Sagittarius' grand quest for understanding life's bigger questions baffling. Fiery Sagittarius, on an endless adventure where the horizon keeps shifting, finds Cancer's anxious emotionality perplexing. Cancer can help Sagittarius to ground vision and make a commitment to real creative productivity, while Sagittarius can help Cancer to be more confident, open-minded, and optimistic about the future. But the two of you need to appreciate and respect each other's very different visions of life. Cancer, although imaginative and restless, needs a secure home base and emotional reassurance. Sagittarius, although capable of constancy, needs breathing space and independence. Try not to fall into the archetypal closeness-freedom battle. Cancer needs to avoid becoming possessive, and Sagittarius needs to avoid becoming insensitive to others' feelings. You are both highly imaginative and intuitive; use your intuition to imagine how the other feels. This can help to bring out the best in this intense, lively, and potentially enormous combination.

BEST WISHES AND GOOD LUCK for your relationship:-)

Answer 2

If I were you, I wouldn't try to find fault with a relationship by looking into astrology. No offense at all though. If you have been together for 3 1/2 years, you've been doing SOMETHING right. Maybe you two have grown so close that you know everything about each other and have run out of things to say! I dunno. I hope my advice can be of some use. Good luck with your boyfriend! :)

Answer 3

If you really believe that distant rocks orbiting the Sun or other stars being in certain parts of the sky really determiine any aspect of who you are, he may want to find someone more mature. Don't let your b/f know you believe this stuff, OK? Ever.

Answer 4

try turning off the tv and talk to one another, life happens, people grow up. maybe you all need to talk about your wants and expectations

Answer 5

In lunar calendar, go a little bit. If horoscope does not work, use numerology.

Answer 6

well if thats really how you feel than just break up with him