i have 3 sons but the eldest, 4, and the middle, 2 years, always get on each other's nerves.. eventually on mine,too.. help
2006-12-09 16:46:03 · 8 answers · asked by Lhen T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Seriously consider visiting with a family therapist who specializes in children. Each of your sons is growing and learning in his own way. That way is apparently in conflict with your wishes. So, find out what it is that is driving your children. What message are each of them sending by their conduct? Remember, they're not old enough to be doing this for the purpose of annoying you. There is a reason why they're acting as they do. It's not to hurt you. So find out why. Family therapists are trained to deal with behavior problems with children.
2006-12-09 16:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell you this but this will most likely go on till they get much older! Its a part of life! One will always want beter or more or something like that! But the older they get the less they bicker at eachother!
2006-12-09 16:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by taking_chances 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them how you feel early the better tell the you dont like bad boys start take aways their thing intell they are good when i got my two boys back from my ex wife man they keep hit each other 8 year and 11 year i sat them down and told them there no way i put up with this kind of behavior it work i took a lot of game aways at first good luck
2006-12-10 00:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the LITTLE DARLINGS IN TIME OUT, Take away T.V. Tell them they must get along. Some bickering is O.K. but not if it's constant.
2006-12-09 20:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by queendebadow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, start acting like a parent! That is, when you say something, they listen! Either you do that now or you can forget about later.
Get some of that BUTT.
YOU should not allow negative behavior. You children do not do any more than YOU allow them to!
It is either NOW, or NEVER!
2006-12-09 17:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them sweetly and show them how they can be friends; how important brothers are; how they have to look out for each other; all the positive things...If you just yell at them they won't change their behavior.
2006-12-09 16:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Babs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is part of the siblings rivalry that will continue for a few years they will actually become very close in due time just be a good father and have understanding
2006-12-09 16:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by sportlvr45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lock them in a padded room and let them beat the SH!T out of each other
2006-12-09 16:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋