My husband had a porn movie said he found it also was on a gay website says there is nothing to it and he would never do it but now I'm wandering if he could or has.
2006-12-09 16:41:33 · 27 answers · asked by what gives 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just because he likes to watch, or watches gay porn does not make him gay.
Be more open minded and understanding.
Some people have a fetish, and it is completely healthy.
He might be curious. Which is ok.
And it does not make him more likely to do it.
You need to be talking ot him about this, not a bunch of strangers.
Thats what I would do.
2006-12-09 16:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 06:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Frederick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sheesh, no compassion at all. You can't "fix" anyone but yourself. Calling him a f_a_g isn't helping either. I hope he divorces YOU because all you are interested in is his money and worrying about him not having gay feelings. Children aren't affected by the sexuality of their parents and it doesn't "rub off" on them. Sounds like you need to stop being a homophobe and seek some counseling. Why would you get him a prostitute and risk bringing STD's into your home? Now THAT would be a horrible example for your kids! Sounds like he might be bi-sexual and you can either accept it or leave it. Your choice
2016-03-29 01:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask my husband to explain to me.Why he was going to gay websites/watching gay porn?If he is not gay/bi-sexual.Apparently there was something to it.He would not have been there in the first place.I would ask him .Why he feels the need to lie/cover it all up?If there is nothing to it.Tell you he found the porn.Where did he find it at?It did not just drop out of the clear blue sky into your home.Right or wrong>I would probably think my husband was gay/bi-sexual.Unless he had an explanation for it.Not this crap oh i found it.It is nothing.I would want to know.Why?I would ask him straight up if he was gay/bi-sexual.If he told me no.I would say well i hope you understand.Why I would think that you are?
2006-12-09 17:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by noga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point I wouldn't worry too much. I think all men have thoughts and are curious about gay sex, but nearly most of them would not act on it. For now, trust him. If you see more signs in the future, talk to him about it. If he wants to or has acted upon this, there will probably be many more signs. Good Luck and take care.
2006-12-09 16:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by sciteach9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is a tuff one. first I would ask him are you just curious and if he is then just blow it off. Or ask him does he feel a need to look at gay porn is there some feelings he is afraid to deal with like is he attracted to men but does not know it?? It might be harmless or you could take him to bed and really make love to him like you did on your honeymoon Good Luck
2006-12-09 16:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by sportlvr45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your husband, no matter what? If you are wondering, then ask him and if he tells you that he is curious about it, then tell him to go for it and explore, then get back to you and tell you honestly whether he liked it or not. I have been married 21 years and if my husband were caught doing what your husband was doing, I would tell him exactly that because I love my husband and sex isn't the entire marriage.
2006-12-09 16:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by sharptooth3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might have just been curiousity. What you need to ask yourself is this. Does he love you? Does he enjoy making love to you? Do you have any reason to believe he has ever cheated on you? A porm movie doesnt mean a thing. Lots of straight women watch mens porn with girl on girl. It doesnt make them lesbian.
2006-12-09 16:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by fancyname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... you and him really should have an open and honest talk. I know at times there can be "curiosity" for str8 guys... but I dont know many who would download gay porn on their computer. If he is doing something on the side, it can be very dangerous for you. I would check deeper into it with open communication with him.
2006-12-09 16:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by Waytomanyopinions! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
therapy!!! Since u dont know 4 sure, u need 2 find someone that can really get in his head and get the truth out. Good Luck honey
2006-12-09 16:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by 1hotmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋