SHARE YOUR SECRETS (embarressing, dark, or whatever)?

Question

well all of u r ANONYMOUS anyway, so SPILL!

heres mine: (and its VERY EMBARRESSING, its sad)

i dont have alot of friends, so sometimes i write a note to my parents saying im at the mall with friends...so then i go out and around town to some bookstore and just read books and keep taking the bus , until 6 hours is over, then i come back home.

my dad calls me a loner, and once i heard my parents, my bro and sis call me 'anti-social', so thats y i do this, so i dont look like a loner-loser, but really I AM A LOSER

i do have only a few friends who i do go out with (like 5 times a year!), but ya i pretended to go out with my 'friends' like 9 times so far! yup im a loser

EDIT: when i tell my parents im going out with my friends, 70% of the time, i just go out ALL BY MYSELF

THANKS CHINA THAT SITE REALLY DOES HELP ME FEEL BETTER lol

Answer 1

Awww I don't have a lot of friends either, but I have all the ones I need :) I can be your friend!

I'm somewhat anti-social too. I don't know why, but I don't like a lot of people.

www.postsecret.blogspot.com
You should go here every Sunday. People send in anonymous postcards. Read them, and you won't feel so lonely anymore.

God blesss!

Answer 2

Darlin', it's **really** difficult to find and develop a true friendship with another person. It's incredibly difficult to open up to someone else, even more so if you've been hurt for doing that very thing in the past. It's hard to begin to be a friend if you don't know how to go about it, to open up, to kick-start the process. It's hard for all of us, even the shiny happy people. Trust me on this.

Many people have a few trusted acquaintances. Some surround themselves at all times with a flock of near-strangers that they call friends. Few of us have any more than one or two real friends, if we have any at all.

Here's the recipe for finding friends: go places and do things that you enjoy. Find people there who enjoy what you do. It's that easy.

You like bookstores. That means you must like to read. Can't you go, instead, to your local library and get a volunteer job shelving books? I am certain they have jobs for volunteers in America's poor, underfunded, disappearing libraries.

You WILL meet people there. And if you give it a little bit of time,. some of those people will become friends. I promise you.

And those bookstores? Why can't you get a job at one of them? You'll meet others who like to read, who like books, both co-workers and customers alike.

If you're not old enough to get a job, would you consider asking your parents if you can volunteer at some kind of charity of their choosing, a place they feel is safe for you? Again, you WILL meet people there, and some of them will become special to you. Additionally, if you're still in high school, such volunteerism will look good on a college transcript. In my town's high school, there's a certain number of volunteer hours (50, i think) that must be served at a non-profit organization as a graduation requirement. I know that many other schools in my general area require a similar kind of volunteerism from their students, too.

Bottom line: You must exert yourself a little to find friends. But such will be worth it, my dear. You will see.

“One friend in a lifetime is much, two are many, three are hardly possible. Friendship needs a certain parallelism of life, a community of thought, a rivalry of aim.”
-- Henry Brooks Adam (an American writer, 1838-1918)

Answer 3

I have social anxiety and my only friend is my brother. I've had friends and boyfriends before but not now. But you know what? It's ok. Your not a looser at all! Not everyone needs to be around other people to be happy. I good book and my cat curled next to me is just as good.

As for a secret. Because of my anxiety I don't have a job right now. Which is embarrassing to me. So if someone asks that doesn't know about my situation I will lie to them and tell them I have a job. I find that sad about myself yet I try to not let it bother me so much. My anxiety is getting much better and soon I will get a job.

Answer 4

I secretly think that it's probably a bad idea to post your secrets on a forum that the entire world could see. Although, I do feel for you, as I am also somewhat antisocial. I don't think it's a good idea to lie, but yay books! Hope you feel better.

Answer 5

Mine is really a really a coward but I come off tough. I hope no one figures the truth .

Answer 6

dont worry, you are not the only one. I think you are your best friend. very creative, not anti social. Your kind make it real big. wait for your time.

Answer 7

I'm a sex machine.

Bow-Chika-Bow-Ow!

Just kidding.