2006-12-09 16:38:57 · 16 answers · asked by piper 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Be happy for your friend, have confidence in yourself and your relationship, get to know the new person, and hang out with them both. That's what a grown-up would do.
2006-12-09 16:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anne C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend about it and remind them how much this feeling bothers you, and frankly, there has to be some reason you're feeling that way (otherwise, it would be so easy to ignore it like other people said). Maybe your friend has no idea how left out you feel until you tell them. If they're a true friend they'll help you through it. Warning though, there are some stupid reasons for getting jealous though, and if you feel like you want to hurt your friend because of your jealousy, that's not a good friendship then.
2006-12-10 01:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by dawn_incognito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing as you, but you didnt explain your situation too much. Just try not to think too much about it. If it is your best friend, he/she will always be that, that's what I realised. Just try getting to know this other person a bit better, and hang out with that person more often, like your best friend does. This did indeed help me ease the pain of seeing my best friend with another.
Hope that helps
2006-12-10 01:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by MrRomeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe this someone else they are hanging out with is a potential partner for them. Just give them some room. If they really are a true friend they'll be back in due time
2006-12-10 00:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care so much? You sound as if you are the only one she is allowed to be friends with. Are you in love with her? If you have any faith in your friendship then let it be. If you two are true best friends then nothing or no one will ever come between you. People need alone time, find a hobby or something.
2006-12-10 00:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by Grommitt18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most importantly, don't show jealousy. My friend of many years
has other friends, but so do I. Sometimes we talk everyday and sometimes we don't talk for weeks. We confide things to eachother that we wouldn't tell anyone else. I feel very confident that our friendship is genuin, if it wasn't, then it wasn't a real friendship to begin with
2006-12-10 00:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by jackie v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest you chill out. best friend should not mean only friend. if this friend is the only person YOU hang out with, consider this an opportunity to expand your own world a little. you and your friend will enjoy each other more when you have separate experiences, too.
2006-12-10 01:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by rainydaydreamr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she really your best friend if she is hanging out with somebody else? A best friend should be someone you can count on NO MATTER WHAT!!!!!!!
2006-12-10 00:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by HitMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to other interests and people. There is nothing wrong with expanding your world. You and your friend will meet back together again.
Please don't feel inadequate or threatened about it, change is the one constant we can be sure of.
2006-12-10 00:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Learn to share. Remember kindergarten?
2006-12-10 00:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋