can sex be still good 4-5 years later?(same partner)?

Answer 1

An interesting question, which I "think" I can answer, having had a boyfriend of 8 years with whom sex was a joy throughout.

I'll tell you something for free.

Sex on its own is worthless. It is what attracts people maybe, but even if you were to sleep with a Calvin Klein model regularly, you would soon tire of it unless there was something deeper and more meaningful. The CK model would soon become the same old pretty face!

In the 8 years I was with the other guy, we did so many things together and shared so many interests, to the point that even listening to a piece of music, or admiring something special, was a shared experience which re-inforced our togertherness. Long after he, and I, had stopped gaping at each other's bodies, we would often lie in bed and laugh at the things we had done. Sex was just a wonderful and spontaneous way of cementing what we had together.

If the first six months were exciting, the next 7.5 years meant a lot more.

Not the best looking guy in the world, I once asked the other half why he chose to be with me. (He WAS a model by the way, and very beautiful physically).

He explained that he was used to being looked at and photographed, and that's what people used him for professionally, but I was the only person who really listened to him and cared about him, even when he looked rough first thing in the morning.

When you look at the unshaven mess with red eyes and a hangover, and want to put your arms around them; you're stuck with them!

Answer 2

i have had a couple ltr and the sex died out after awhile but looking back it wasnt love.

Im in a relationship now its been about a year now and we plan on commiting to the point of marriage in the fall of next year. I will say this Iam positive that in 5 or 10 years it will still be as good then as it was our first fateful night.

It all falls on whether or not your love is true. If you truely love that person and not just lust then yes you will have unbelieverable nights together for years. If its not love then no it will die out when the excitement is gone. True love never dies and never looses its edge.

Answer 3

I have been married to the same man for 7.5 years and the sex gets better all the time. I think it is because we love each other and since we have been together for so long, we really know what turns each other on and we know how to please each other. Plus, we are more comfortable letting each other know what we want. It is great to know that you always have someone you can get down and dirty with and not worry about stds, or aids.
I love being married, and would not change it for anything. So I would say yes, it is still good.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

of course it can! my best friends have been together as a couple for yrs. now. an they are perfect for each other! so yes it is good when you are with the right person...it only gets better in time!

Answer 6

If you are bleeding now he probably scratched you because after having sex for that long your hymen would have already broke. Nothing to worry about

Answer 7

Depends on how often ya'll get down..... if it's once a month, it's probably still new..... couple times a day.... I'd be so bored with that person by now.

Answer 8

If you really love the other person and you find ways to keep things interesting then sure, I believe so.

Answer 9

As long as you still love the person, it will always be great

Answer 10

Of course it can, as long as you still both love each other.