there for almost 3 hours. He is drunk off his *** and is now sleeping. Should I be upset with this
2006-12-09 16:00:34 · 29 answers · asked by woozie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You took a risk when you started dating a married man; now you are suffering the consequences. Call off the relationship until his divorce is final, because that's when you can take a stand if he spends unreasonable time with his ex wife.
2006-12-09 16:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Upset about what him helping hang his wife's christmas lights or him being asleep while drunk off his ***? I dont think helping out the wife should be an issue but if he drove home drunk I'd be all over his ***.
2006-12-10 00:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on how long they have been separated and how long you have been together. Do they have children etc......
You need to take all of that into account. Maybe he was spending time with the kids etc.
Don't always jump to conclusions ok, speak to him about it before you jump to any silly conclusion and make an *** out of yourself for thinking too much into it.
Just sleep it off.
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2006-12-10 00:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by M c K e n z y e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-12-10 00:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by karma_goddess84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You're seeing a married man. He went home to be with his wife and decided to enjoy a few drinks with her and sleep there. You're wrong for dating married men.
2006-12-10 00:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he should of not went over there and he needs to get a divorce or you need to move on if the shoe was on the other foot would he be up set its not worth it it sounds like more then lights to me she should of got her man to do that for her
2006-12-10 00:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
You are the one dating the guy who is not divorced yet. Have they been split up for more than a year?
Bad news and he is still carrying pain from his past relationship so if you stick around just expect it.
2006-12-10 00:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by Gem 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't be mad if he was over at her house if he had kids. The question is why was he drunk and was he drinking with her? drinking and cheating go hand in hand RUN
2006-12-10 00:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by shelby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it might be time to move on this is what you should do
1. sit down and tell him its you or her
2. try to talk to her and ask whats really going on
3. why would he be drunk? he probally slept with her hate to sound harsh but when in doubt! good luck hun
2006-12-10 00:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would want to re-evaluate the relationship. If I really wanted to deal with that in the future. Seems like he still likes her and you may always be ' the other woman'.
2006-12-10 00:04:33 · answer #10 · answered by leilacara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋