I suspect one of my friends talked to my friends "behind my back". (slandered me). From some period of time, like evereybody "dissapeared". Nobody returns my calls, or even appear online on IM, or answers email or on myspace or facebook. I think that it might be either one the best, whom I shared with him more secrets and jokes that anybody else. I told him that I like guys, well I know he is gay too or bisexual based on what we together went through. Or it might be some friends who stalked me and review profiles of all my friends on myspace and when found out one is gay, then told others.
2006-12-09 15:28:46 · 8 answers · asked by master343 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Actually we went together to high school in some suburbs in MA. Then year later I moved to Chicagoland and I found there people "easier" accept gayness. In MA I have always heard negative comments.
2006-12-09 15:34:26 · update #1
In fact they are all 100% Polish. In Polish word the word more fag or queer is more popular than gay. I found some new friends, both non polish or polish born here who are more open about sexual orientation
2006-12-09 15:38:49 · update #2
It is also possible that some may be jealous about me. I moved to better area. And now I also go to very good college, that is in city of Chicago (DePaul), in downtown and has restricted admission. I also have good job, though nobody knows how much hard I work and for what pay.
2006-12-09 15:46:49 · update #3
with friends like that who needs enemies??
I wouls say that if you form of comunication is through the computer that really is a sucky way to talk to your friends.
True friends would like you if your gay or not.
FRIEND=Someone that you can tell anything to and they are going to be there for you no matter what. Someone that truley likes you for who you are funny, smart, helpful, respectful. A true friend can name the good and bad quailtys of a friend and know that they are meaning every word.
Sounds like someone is REALLY jellous or envious of you. Dont let them keep you down, make new friends, but dont forget the ones that ARE there for you still.
Good luck.... :)
2006-12-09 15:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by ohdarnitsmeagain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they won't return your emails then I don't know how you'd find out this information. I suppose you could make a new user name and introduce yourself into this circle of friends as a new person and try to find out that way ....
But why go to this trouble for these people who evidently are willing to abandon you because they don't like your sexual orientation? Why not use the time to make some new friends who will like you in spite of this fact?
2006-12-09 15:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by Rubythorne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha, You recognise what? she is a nasty buddy. She is aware of she's a nasty buddy and you presently lamentably comprehend it too. If persons say "I heard you name that loopy chick a nasty buddy, what is up with that?" you'll be able to say "Actually, I did not name her a nasty buddy, I did not say some thing approximately her behaviour considering that she was once a buddy, however via her possess latest movements she has proven herself to be an overly unhealthy buddy, now not simply by forsaking me whilst I wanted her so much even after the whole lot I've performed for her however she additionally selected to run round spreading lies as a substitute of speakme to me whilst it was once transparent that there was once a drawback with our friendship, I'm now not going to make you select among me and her, however I am most likely now not striking round along with her anymore, she's loopy"
2016-09-03 09:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is going around spreading rumors about you and your "friends" believe it and stop associating with you.....those people weren't your friends to begin with.
Wipe the slate clean and start over.....this time be careful who you confide in.
2006-12-09 15:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone has stopped talking to you because they found out you were gay, or bi? well that does'nt sound much like a friend. if you need someone to talk to feel free to email me at adabekka@yahoo.com. start with asl please.
2006-12-09 15:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy kid....Friends CAN NOT be turned against you, for any reason. Real friends that is.
2006-12-09 15:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them or set him up to find out
2006-12-09 15:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if your friends can not except u 4 who u r then they r not truly your friends... and i think your other friend is ashamed about wat he is....... he shouldn't be ashamed because its natural.... so u should find new friends that except u 4 who u are
2006-12-09 15:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by Val.w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋