have stray thoughts of making out with their attackers and really wanting it? A year after it happened?
Even though noone WANTS to be raped....Just doing research on what's normal and not.
2006-12-09 15:13:56 · 9 answers · asked by i_ship_jolie_pitt_aniston_2getha 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No that's not normal at all. If there was a case like that, then I would think the victim was suffering from something like Stockholm Syndrome.
2006-12-09 15:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sorcha 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
No! In fact, most rape victims will go out of their way to try to make themselves unattractive, unavailable... they'll do their best not to be victimized again and, despite what Eduardo said, they do not become rapists themselves.
They are horrified and disgusted. They do not think about their attacker or really wanting it. Often, they are so disgusted by the whole thing that they stop wanting to have sex with anyone... even their own husbands or boyfriends!
And keep in mind that rapists are not these good looking guys like you sometimes see in movies. They're not attractive, they are not necessarily clean, they may be diseased... the poor victim has not just emotional and physical injuries but the fear that the scum has infected her with AIDS or whatever.
2006-12-09 16:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jackie Blue 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
When it comes to sexual or any other behavior we human keep repeating what it was done or said to us or we completely hate it. For example if somebody was raped that person is either going to do the same or hate it. That is why a lot of people that were raped become rapers themselves. But not only for raping is applied this, is in all aspects of life. For example if your parents were cleaning freaks, most likely you will be one or you will be a dirty person. We do the same thing or the opposite. I hope you understand what I am trying to say. Good luck.
2006-12-09 15:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by EDUARDO H 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I think that's actually more likely a fantasy of the rapist, that "She really liked me" or "we could have had a relationship." But you can check with a rape crisis center counselor if you were raped, and ask this question.
2006-12-09 22:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
one in each and every of my worse fears and probably my in elementary words is to be rapped, i experience if is replaced into ever to ensue that my worry, being almost as good by way of the undeniable fact that is, ought to over come my body and that i ought to finally end up killing my rapist, yet issues ensue. i comprehend how i ought to experience about this human being afterwards like ive been violated, and if i replaced right into a guy like my manhood replaced into taken from me, i imagine i ought to fullfill those fantasies you're having which scares me even although i comprehend this is not accurate. yet certain, this is time-honored. iam not encouraging you to fullfill those fantasies b/c this is incorrect. although the in elementary words element that ought to stop me must be my faith in God, so how good is your faith? Iam only asking, i dont opt for to push the issue cuz it type of feels that you've been having some issues yet between you and God, how is your faith?
2016-11-30 09:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My g/f was raped and she saw the guys once after and ever since has been terified of seeing them again.
2006-12-10 04:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by Kiah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I even think about my attacker I get cold chills and want to cry- there's no desire to make out with him at all.. so I would have to say no.
2006-12-09 15:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I have NEVER heard of a rape victim that had that kind of thought; to the contrary, any stray thoughts of their attackers induce very negative reactions like fear, nausea, anger, frustration, tears, etc.
2006-12-09 15:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 5⤋
You only see that in movies, not real life.
2006-12-09 15:21:58 · answer #9 · answered by neo_maxi_zoon_dweeby 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋