My fiance to be, has just recently divorced her third husband, that part I'm happy about...The part that gets me is that she has to remain living as a roommate in the same house as him, so that their grandchildren can have a normal Christmas. I don't like this and I don't know what to do about it because I am rapidly becomming fed-up with it. Is it normal for me to be so angry over this?
2006-12-09 14:42:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get ready to be ex-husband number 4.
2006-12-09 14:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by puddin' 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um...I think someone's fiance is trying to pull the wool over your eyes....That is ridiculous! To actually tell you that she "has to remain living as a roommate in the same house as him, so that their grandchildren can have a"'normal'" Christmas? What's 'normal' about that??? Yes, it is perfectly normal for you to be angry about this. I'm betting that she isn't divorced from him. I would ask to see the divorce decree because that sound like bullshi* to me. Happy Holidays!
2006-12-09 14:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Third husband, huh??? Don't you think there is a problem with this situation?? Don't put up with, "normal Christmas" or not, which is a false front and a lie just like the one she is feeding you.
2006-12-09 14:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by John D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel she is putting her grandchildren before you? Their grandchildren won't have a normal life after she marries you, so why isn't she spending the holidays with you. I can understand your anger!
2006-12-09 14:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first, you do not could be suited for being a SAHM. you could pass away the domicile at the back of in the experience that your overhelmed and drained. It is going for the laundry and different projects besides. whether, make specific the babies have schedules so as which you have some quiet time for your self or do different job that wasn't executed. Get out to places like the library tale time with different mothers and youngsters. possibly make some contacts so which you have a play date with them. verify on your nearby section to verify in the event that they have mothers meetup, i'm so as that they do. you basically could discover out. which would be theraputic for you. you could change youngsters with different mothers so as that they are in a position to take a pair hours for themselves. because of the fact that your new being a SAHM, you're able to do slightly prognosis to have some events coated up. verify your Peditrician's workplace to verify if different mothers have some form of group happening. additionally, verify with nearby church for childcare drop off. they often do it for loose as quickly as a week or so. often times, it is likewise possible to get to verify a overall performance for loose in case you seem into some theatre or nearby college library. there are a number of accessible, you basically could seem. Your 3 365 days is the right age to comprehend, he could provide you a hand often times. Ask him to %. up after himself, and play quietly on the same time as your looking after the infant and getting some quiet time. you could communicate including your bf so he could provide you a hand besides. bear in mind, SAHM isn't "Wonderwoman" we could decelerate and enable it pass often times.
2016-10-18 01:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's just making excuses to me. Moving back in with him once she's out could nullify the divorce proceedings.
2006-12-09 14:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she dont have to live there she is living there because she wants to. what constitutes a normal christmas.
2006-12-09 14:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by nurse2011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when hubby and i split up for awhile, we still lived together, and we got back together. They are most likely having sex. I wouldnt put up with it, tell her to move out, or have him move out.
2006-12-09 14:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I should say so, you may want to think long and hard before marrying her and becoming number four, take things slow with this one
2006-12-09 14:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋