I live in an independent program. I really miss him.
2006-12-09 14:17:08 · 28 answers · asked by pop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
prepare yourself for the best answer
ok...
it true that u are young BUT if u love this person this much and u both feel the same way the best thing to do is WAIT and get married when ur like 19/20 seriously u will thank me....love is a strong word......even a 16 yr old can acknowledge that.....
you both should wait for each other ...if the love is as strong as u say u will feel the same way a few years from now....
2006-12-09 14:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by Phillie D Philliums 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to sneek, it isn't love. If it's true love, wait 2 yrs and if he is still there which I doubt, you can be together legally. If you live in a program you need to work on you because if you don't he is gone anyway. Don't be afraid of never finding love again because you will. Love takes time to get it right and at 16, no one has it right. I'm not hatin it's the truth call it back to the future. It's new and it feels good but so does a massage. Enjoy your life get yourself straight so when love truely comes, you are prepared for it. It like driving in a Mustang all tricked out and going 100 mile per hour at night with the lights off. there are curves, pot holes and cliffs. Anyone of them can end it if you are not prepared. Thanks for reading.
..........A.Friend
2006-12-09 22:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by lasman37 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're in a relationship and you have to 'sneak around to see him' . . . what does that tell you ? That maybe you being 16 is too young ? Love is not everything, true valued love also comes along with responsibility, compassion, focus, attentiveness, self value, extended care for another, financial savvy, relationship awareness, attentiveness of everyday living lifestyle, etc. etc. etc. You have to sneak around...how "romantic" and dramatic. You really miss him...at least you know you have an awakened healthy heart. . . but no reason to become engaged. Date him, dear one, no need to become engaged.
2006-12-09 22:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by onelight 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is wrong with you teenagers these days/
What happened to getting an education first.
You need to think about your future, where are you headed? A single mother on welfare with no job skills nor education to help you get back on your feet.
Most teens your age end up that way.
Please get your life straight first then think about marriage. At least pospone any plans for marriage until you graduate.
2006-12-10 04:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up, get an education, get a job, live life for awhile first. If it's meant to be then you will end up getting married. I think there are some problems "upstairs" if you are gonna get engaged at such a young age AND you have to sneak around to see this person. It's not a true relationship.
2006-12-09 22:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what is an independent program? If its where you can leave it without getting into trouble then do and move in with him i mean if your already engaged to him whats the harm.
2006-12-09 22:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun...
Dont let these nit wits tell you what to do. My great-grandmother was married at 14, and her and my grandfather died still married. You are old enough to know that love is more than just being needed, and marraige takes hard work, compromise and respect. But please dont' listen to someone else...believe what your heart says, and when its time, it will happen. And if God didn't want it to happen, he wouldn't let it happen. *Gives sour looks to all the ugly girls afraid someone might find love before they did.* Marry your man sweety...if thats what your heart says to do.
*makes a note that she has a jealous father, who wouldn't aprove if she were marrying christ himself. Sometimes good seed or not, with parents it doesn't matter* Adults can sometimes be stupid in their protectiveness over their children. Take your man and run sweety, if he loved you enough to pop the question...its good to go!
2006-12-09 22:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by punky_boo_baby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may have strong feelings for this guy... but you have a lot of life ahead of you. If I were to tell you that at age 16 you would have to choose a car and live with it for the rest of your life... wouldn’t that be kind of sad? Wouldn’t you want to try lots of cars before settling in on just one?
You are probably not going to listen to me... but slow down and don’t be in a hurry to marry him. If he is the right guy... he will wait for you for a few years.
2006-12-09 22:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a joke, right????? I mean no one is this stupid. In case it isn't:
Don' get pregnant
Don'tget pregnant
Grow up
Stay in School
Stay in School
Stay in School
Get a job.
Find a nice guy
Stay on the bc pill
Dont have any children until your in a solid marriage.
You asked. Now follow the directions. Happiness takes planning, hon, you aren't planning.
2006-12-09 22:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are sneaking around, you are not legitimately engaged. You need to get with the program and allow the adults around you to give you guidance. If this love is real, he will wait for you to reach your adulthood.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-09 22:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋