Ok, Yesterday I made this cover for my school planner. It has tons of pictures of my favorite sabre player. (Afinogenov) Today I went out to eat and missed the first period of the sabres game. I called my friend in the car for updates on the game and she says "ohhh ughhh I'm not watching it. I ughhhh am to busy to watch it.." I am like this huge sabres fan and she really isn't. She copies me all the time! and now she is convincing herself she is this huge fan!! She doesn't even know what sport the sabres even play! She is even convincing herself that her favortie player is Afinogenov!!
Now back to the call, She says oh by the way i am getting pictures of the sabres and gluing them on my school planner. And i was like "ughhh ok." when i wanted to say "BE YOUR OWN PERSON GoD DAMM.ITT!!"
But it gets so annoying!! She copies everything I do ever since 2nd grade till now (7th grade) Everytime I develop a new interest she has the same one!!! How do i tell her that this is annoying me
2006-12-09 14:12:23 · 9 answers · asked by NICOLE 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is reallllllllllllllly sensative so i can't just tell her to her face
2006-12-09 14:17:49 · update #1
well i must say that she may not be much of a sabres fan, but she is your biggest fan~ u do realize that this is whats really going on, she envies you, think you r great & so r your ideas choices & style.. 4 some profound reason she doesnt feel secure with her own choices,ideas or thoughts so she decided to share yours, yes of course i know that its aggrevating & pisses u off, but dont tell her that please, b/c she actually doesnt realize you realize it, she feels by doing what u do it shows you how very much the 2 of u have in common, how about bragging on some of her ideas~ that'll help build up her self esteem, agree with a few of her choices & that will mean letting her choose 1st. for a lil while play the back, see what she comes up with & say "yeah~dag i wouldve never thought of that 1!!" Do you feel me?? i hope so & good luck honey & be nice ok??!
2006-12-09 14:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard that immitation is the most sincere form of flattery? Instead of just telling her what your interests are, act interested in hers. Get her involved in other stuff, and support it. Helping her find herself is going to go a lot further than just telling her to do it.
2006-12-09 14:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by lclaws13 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that does get annoyin, but she envies you. She may not be a huge sabres fan, she's ur biggest fan
2006-12-09 14:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that its nice to be ur own oerosn and just tell her that ur not tryint o be mean but it seems like evry thing that u like its the same thing that she likes and u think its really starting to get on your nerves
2006-12-09 14:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it that it annoys you, its as simple as that, or if that doesn't work you could always punch her in the face, that works too!
2006-12-09 14:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by drumsahnbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight up to her face
2006-12-09 14:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your friend, do it straight!
2006-12-09 14:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by funwithu_007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop ******** copying u
2006-12-09 14:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wat u do is help her find her own intrests. c wat she likes to do and find wat u both for real like and ull b fine.
2006-12-09 14:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋