2006-12-09 14:01:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I did twice....2 different guys. One I regretted almost immediately...the other one actually worked out ok for both of us.
2006-12-09 14:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not. If I were to have sex with someone because I felt sorry for him I would not be doing him or myself any favors.
If I felt sorry for him it would mean that I did not truly care about him for who he is, and I do not have sex with people I do not care about as a person. If there is a perception of feeling sorry for him, it would be more of a problem with me than with him.
2006-12-09 22:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have to say I did 1 time a few years back and that mistake will never ever happen again.
I dont think it has to do with ego apoc and Im more then happen to share my reasons why I dont in an email or IM. Im afraid I might offend someone putting it here on the boards.
2006-12-09 22:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have and it was truly a mistake. You sell yourself short and you give the other person false hopes. Sex should not be used in this manner, as it is a expression of mutual love and affection between 2 people.
2006-12-09 22:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by VLEEKS47 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A lot of prostitutes and strippers are single moms and feel that the only way to make a living for themselves and children is by selling their body. Do I sleep with them? No. Do I feel sorry for them H$!! no.
2006-12-09 22:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by Superman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Hosestly my situation was a strange one. I didn't realise that that was what I was doing at first. I care about people and would want to comfort them and physically be close to them and things would go south from there. I didn't think of it as a pity situation but in retrospect it completely was.
2006-12-10 01:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by cedar_lea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good way to keep getting used for someone else's sexual gratification.
And I think it's a female thing. Gay or straight, Mr. Happy doesn't deal with compassion. He's got a brain, but not a heart. He's not interested in sad, pathetic, emotional situations.
2006-12-09 22:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by Boomer Wisdom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I never did it because I felt sorry for them, only in spite of that. And it still didn't end up well.
2006-12-09 22:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by Glen B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you never no what the other person may be carying, too many chancess in this lifetime and life is to dam short , hons and we assume are you are talking thinking of one night stand s here right?? no materr how good they look, your taking the chances here of being infectedd, who knows what a one night stand is carrying-- and you may be the one feling soorie you did laterr on, if its your intentions of gearing us towards in0ne- night stands here hons--
2006-12-09 22:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-12-09 22:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by lonetraveler 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, one of my best guy friends was going into the army at 18 and he didn't want to go to boot camp a virgin.
2006-12-09 23:09:10 · answer #11 · answered by princessslave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋