she left me two years ago....I've managed to only have a few dates since...My heart kinda fell down into my boot when she told me this.
2006-12-09 13:57:18 · 17 answers · asked by guyinarizona32 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we have a child together.
2006-12-09 14:28:13 · update #1
No you shouldn't.
Just focus on yourself. Go back to school for anything. Take a trade class of some sort. Finish that project you always to do. Get a second job. Get a hobby or start venturing out with friends more. You to will meet someone you want to marry again. You just have to get out and try.
2006-12-09 20:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still hurting, hon, get some therapy. Then get an ad up on Yahoo Personals, Match.com or some of the others. There is a trick in internet dating...read carefully.
If you don't have a killer smile, get one at the best cosmetic dentist in your area.( Again, get some therapy, and an attitude adjustment if needed. You wont be there but just a few session, hon.) Beautiful teeth radiate health, and healthy is sexy. Yup, it will cost you big buckos, but it is an investment in your future.... Buy some great clothes, (get help if you need it) loose some weight if necessary. Have some super photos taken. Read what some of the men's personal ads say about themselves....mirror some of those in your own little intro... $20 per month is cheap, and if you are a great guy, you'll attract great women. There is no better way to mend a broken heart than to find someone else, sweetie...
Get a gift? Not really necessary... in fact, might be just too painful... she's happy, and you aren't. But try this sweetie.... we are not meant to be in this life unpaired.....
If you need more, write...
2006-12-09 22:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't buy wedding gifts for anyone anymore. People don't stay married anyway so don't waste your money. Take the money you would have spent on a gift and put it aside. When your ex has a 20th wedding anniversary, buy the couple something nice then.
I'm half joking and half serious. But seriously, I really wouldn't bother. Send a card or if you're on good terms, attend the wedding and wish them well.
2006-12-09 22:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by DearAbby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you're hurting...it's only natural, especially when you've only had a few dates since she left, but the best is still yet to come for you. No, don't buy a gift for them. Let yourself heal, and go on more dates. It will help ease the pain some. Good Luck!!
2006-12-09 22:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry, Be like a gud friend. Its nothing wrong of marring some one else. I think from past 2 years, U had affair with some one else. So why dont you think on that way?
2006-12-09 22:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by viju 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell no! what a nice person you are. Just congratulate her and apologize to the poor sap that gets her and move on. Ya it sucks when you think about it.....SO DON'T!
Hey, look it wasn't meant to be. And there is probably someone out there waiting for you.
2006-12-09 22:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by SecretFriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would give them a small gift with a small card. Then I'd spend some money on a small gift for myself.
2006-12-09 22:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by montrealissima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is be happy for her, that she has found someone that wants to be with her, and loves her very much. Eventually you will find someone out there, no need to rush into something that might not last.
2006-12-09 22:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy them a book like "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"
2006-12-09 22:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by thkiabdks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW I feel for you....I am waiting for my ex to tell me the same one day soon......I dont know how I will handle it. But if you have a good relationship with her then go ahead...if not then dont_
2006-12-09 22:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋