The girl from my previous questions. Y'know, the exquisite one, I'm feeling a little more like she likes me, but I'm still not sure. And, me being the little punk I am, I'm afraid to ask her. (I've never even had a girlfriend because I'm always afraid to make moves. Even when girls have really flirted with me, I found a reason to second guess the descision.) I just can't read if her shyness is because she thinks I'm cute or she thinks I'm weird. I tried making small talk, it was fumbly. I don't want to 'just come out and ask' because I don't want to scare her away. If she doesn't like me, I at least would like to be her friend; she's a nice girl.
My question is, how can I read her. I need to know 'cause I'm getting a little frustrated. Seeing her everyday and not knowing. I'm sure someone out there has been in my same predicament. How did you do it? Help...please.
2006-12-09 13:51:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Honestly -- and I know this answer completely sucks because I get all sorts of shy around girls:
You have to talk to her to find out more. You have to get to the point where you're having enough conversation to exchange numbers or invite her to go grab some coffee. Coffee is always a good way to start because it's something that is easy to escape if things don't go well, and easy to hang out for hours or move on to something else if they do. Chances are that with as little intereaction as you've had she may not be fully sure if she's interested and could easily be sending mixed signals. The only way to know is to get to know eachother.
2006-12-09 17:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by cedar_lea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there first thing u can do is go out to a movie dinner something nice and sweet. does she have a computer then u can make a different id but chatting with her as a friend ask questions etc questions u want to be answer such what kind of persons does she like whose her best friend but hey never tell her that is u at the other end of that id or tell anyone .but be ready for any answers that u will not like and do not get mad at her for what she says remember your someone else at that other id. and if u find out she like you a few drinks or even a night out on the town would be nice flowers are always welcome. good luck
2006-12-09 22:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by sugarlove_one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask 'do you see me as a friend?' if she says yes, then say ' will you ever like me more than a friend. I'm not trying to scare you off, but i'm just curious'
2006-12-09 21:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by stinkybum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know y dont u ask her lol
2006-12-09 21:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋