ok...One of my best friends has a very crappy boyfriend that is always hitting on me. It wouldn't be so much of a problem if he wasn't one of my husbands bestfriends. He is always slapping my butt when I walk infront of him and winking at me when no one else is looking. To make things worse he pulls his junk out of his pants for me to see!!! He is always telling me to show him my boobs (of course I don't). It makes me feel very uncomfortable and I don't know what to do about it. I don't do anything to lead him on. Anytime we are in a room together he starts this crap. I tell him to leave me alone and get a life but it doesn't stop him. I told my husband once and he confronted his friend and of course his friend denied it. We do everything with this couple. I try to get out of going places with them but my friend begs and begs me to go with them. She has no idea!!! What can I do?
2006-12-09 13:21:14 · 4 answers · asked by pickledtink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to confront him in a serious way. First you need to sit down with your husband and tell him again what's going on and the severity of it. Tell him exactly everything this man is doing to you. Tell him you are uncomfortable with it and it needs to stop. Don't laugh or joke about it, your husband needs to realize how serious this is. Then you and your husband need to confront this man together. You should tell your best friend about it, but you have to remember you run the risk of tainting your relationship with her. If it were me I would take my chances and tell her. A few years ago, one of my friend's boyfriends called me to hook up with me (got my number from her phone). I told her about this and she believed me, but stayed with him and because he hated me for telling her he didn't like us hangining out anymore. She is your best friend and she needs to know whats going on and how much of a creep her boyfriend is. If he acts like that with you, her best friend, imagine what he is doing with other women. Wouldn't you want to know if your husband was doing that with other women? Also, DO NOT put yourself in any situation where you are alone with this man. Make sure you are with someone else, either your husband or your best friend at all times when you are around him, this will reduce his opportunities of being able to do things like pull his d**k out to show you. I know you don't want to loose your relationship with your best friend, but you need to do what you can to stay away from this man if he continues to disrespect you like this.
2006-12-09 13:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to ask, if he is your best friend shouldn't he believe you when you tell him this? This is straight harassment and that guy better be careful. You should tell you best friend that you are not hanging out with that guy anymore and if he can't accept that then part ways period.
2006-12-09 21:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by steptoejosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he doesn't stop, you are going to tell your bestfriend. Your husband needs to kick his ***, his friend is a jerk. He needs a lesson taught - respect women. Put yourself in your bestfriends shoes, would you want to know? if so, then i think she needs to know what kind of jerk she is dating.
2006-12-09 22:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by 1love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get evidence and sue or tell the cops. This guy has issues and needs help.
2006-12-09 21:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by that guy with the face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋