Women's only what do you think about our intuition?

Question

I have a gut feeling that my husband is cheeting on me again, I've been feeling this for the past month or soo because in the type of buissnes that he's in he souldn't be getting home at 10 pm or later. My intuition has never failed me I'm almost 99.9% sure all the time but now I don't know what to do can some one help me get an answered.Do you think that in a situation like this our intuition is really working?

Answer 1

You know what they say about gut feelings. They are usually right. Women generally go with them. Men tend to ignore them in favor of believing they are right. Go with your gut and do some snooping.

Answer 2

Well first of all i think a woman's intuition is almost always right but is it just your gut feeling or is it also your heart? cause your heart dint lie i think you should talk to him about this and work it out if you really love him and if he did cheat if he is honest you should give him another chance because nobody is per fact and he may also think threes a problem with your relationship and threes some thong hes not getting at home so my advice is that you spice things up in the bed room for him let him know that nobody will ever love him like you do i hope things work out it sounds like your a great wife i only hope the best for you both .

Answer 3

I noticed that you said you have a gut feeling he's cheating on you *again*. I feel for you, as I recently went through a divorce after I discovered my husband was a cheater. Something I read during my healing really stuck with me, and that is that past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior. If this has happened before, and you feel in your gut that it's happening again, your gut is telling you something for a reason. And even if it turns out he's not cheating, it sounds as though he needs to work harder to earn back your trust, because if he truly loves you he should want you to feel happy and safe in your relationship. I also had a weird gut feeling that I kept trying to ignore and I wish very much now that I had followed my gut and checked his cell phone. I would have learned everything I needed to know. Good luck, I feel for you! Hopefully it's nothing and your fears will be put to rest.

Answer 4

In my opinion, women's so called intituition is actually a combination fears and emotions occasionally coupled with unconscious observations. I definitely do not believe in women's intitution because I believe in being rational and keeping a clear mind. I like to know what I'm thinking. Artistic intuition may be another thing though. I'm still debating that one, but women's intuition is not real.

What you are experiencing is not intituition, but fear coupled with the fact that your husband is coming home late. Evaluate yourself. Put your fears and your rational thoughts on a scale. Are your fears outweighing your thoughts? Are your fears influencing your thoughts? Of course, I can't tell you whether or not your husband is cheating. You do know him best. Just don't let your 'intuition' get in the way of your real self.

Answer 5

Some statistics say that 85% of women who feel their lover is cheating are correct. If you have suspicions, be as impartial as possible, but try to make notes of all things which you consider unusual. It is difficult to chatch cheaters, because secresy is on their side, but if you do not raise suspicion and you will be diligent, you may get some proof. Some experts though say that most times is enough to stop an affair if you make it know that you suspect it. Either method has positive and negative consequences. You must make your choice.

Answer 6

yes,,, women are very perceptive , when it comes to this situation, You say you have a gut feeling he is cheating again,,, I always heard "Once A Cheater ,Always A Cheater ",,,
Does he explain why he is getting home so late? If he avoids your questions , I would tend to believe your intuiton is correct in this situation,,, If so you deserve better,,, Men like this are a dime a dozen,,, Good Luck ,hope everything works out in your favor

Answer 7

If he's cheating on you "again", you might be seeing some of the same signs, he was showing you before when he was cheating. If he's out late and says he's been at work, tell him to call you from work, right before he's ready to come home, and check your caller id. He has already broken your trust, so you are going to jump, if just one little thing doesn't seem right. He has to earn it back, so he has to do things, like calling you and what not, so that you don't think he's out doing something he shouldn't be.

Answer 8

Always go with your instinct, but proceed with caution. But with a cheater, there are signs.... the working late EVERY NIGHT, a change in routine usually is a tale tell sign; lack of sexual activity.. that is why i don't know why some women don't act like they know i don't know if they are in denial or what and they want to see but im not waiting around to catch him because you don't want to go to jail behind him.

Answer 9

Never doubt the intuition! Now go check it out.

Answer 10

i rely on my intuition for everything. sometimes it fights with my heart and i get confused but most of the tim i follow it and it doesnt lead me wrong. look into his eyes and talk to him. if it turns for the worse, you have the strength to leave everyone does. the quetion is do you have the love and patience to stay. i hope you find your right path good luck girl! :)