Will that change or will he always be like that?
2006-12-09 13:13:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It will always be like that...he knows it works and holds it over your head_
2006-12-09 13:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
C'mon your fears of not finding someone to talk to or support you are plain stupid . Do you have any idea about the mammoth magnitude of population on our lovely planet ? You'd definitely find someone and I bet ya he'd be a thousand times more understanding ,sensible, polite and sane. To be honest I dont understand how did you survive with such a jerk for so long. You can't allow anyone to demean you, disrespect you and abuse you so badly. Don't ,for heavens sake, let that devil ruin your self esteem this way. You must respect yourself, ofcourse you did a mistake when you slapped him but the price that you are made to pay for that is completely unreasonable. Don't let him or any other person hit you yaaar !! That's mad, stupid ,insane. And you know that all this pain ain't worth it. There are more than a billion people on this Earth, trust me you'd definitely find your real soulmate in no time and even if you have to wait it'll be worth it. But that'll be possible if you pull all your strength together now and break up with your monstrous,stupid ,idiot , selfish, mean, impolite, indecent ,weak boyfriend . o yeah forgot to tell you that when you really want to talk your heart out parents and best friends (and NOT boyfriends) are a great option.
2016-05-23 00:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will always be like that unless he recognizes that it is a big problem and decides to change it. You're in a power struggle, and maybe it has to do with his upbringing. I lived with and was engaged to a guy who did this. It lasted 5 years. We lived together for 3 (years 2,3 and 4). He left me after year 4, moved out on me and my kids--broke our engagement and their hearts. Strangely, he didn't really want to let go somehow, and we wound up back together (I needed some help to keep from losing custody after that big upheaval), then broke up a few more times. Once I realized how the patterns were going, I was very embarrassed and ashamed that I'd stayed with him so long and put my kids through so much, and could honestly say I didn't love him anymore. So I broke it off for good (4 months before the wedding).
I've learned not to put myself through that kind of meat grinder again.
2006-12-09 13:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is immaturity talking, unfortunately there is no guarantee that he will emotionally mature...sorry...oh and about the ring...contract law states that if he breaks up with you the ring is yours since he has broken the promise of marriage....
2006-12-10 13:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having an argument is normal in relationship, if threatening is so much easy for him to do than work on the relationship then you are not going nowhere, he would do it again in a heartbeat..
2006-12-09 13:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he say's give back the ring, give it to him, turn away, walk away, dont look back, dont go back. even better i would not wait till a next time. if it was me, i'd cut all ties now. move on to better life, even being alone would be better.
2006-12-09 13:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by waljac6108 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him now, relationships don't get any better after marriage.
2006-12-09 13:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by coolmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋