Hmmm, Am 26 years old now , i used to have alot of friends and girlfriends and having fun, but last 2 years when they sit with me,
I feel empty from inside... Even my girlfriend left me cuz when i kiss her i do't feel anything and she wants Sex, and i only do sex 1time a week with her ( in old days like 3 times a week ) .. she didn't help me at all ... and then i understand that She wants my body not my heart.
A friends chatting and trying to Throw some jokes to make me laugh, yeah i laugh but AM ACTING THAT AM LAUGHING , They don't move an Inch of my Emotion...
and please don't say visit doctors , Am completly aware and healthy. and before 1 week a friend of mine Died i know him like 15 years he is My best of best friends , When i heard he died i don't Even feel anything ... no crying no hurt feeling nothing
ppl help me , i had enough Acting that Am Laughing and having fun...
thanks and sorry for my kinda poor english
2006-12-09 12:54:38 · 9 answers · asked by zar_inhell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The emotions are still there, but hiding. You are hiding them from yourself. You have walled them in and refuse to let them out. This is probably a defensive action.
This could be caused by having a very good friend die, but there might be other reasons. You cannot force yourself to express that which you are not aware. Some might say that you are in Denial.
Have you stubbed your toe lately? Or have a strange driver cut you off while you were minding your own business? Has someone bumped into you and spilled something? Any little thing which might have made you just a little angry? Anger is usually the first emotion to return. The others will follow in time.
2006-12-10 18:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 63⤊ 1⤋
I think the key words that you are saying yourself are, "I feel empty inside". This explains a lot of what's going on with how you are reacting to everything and everyone around you.
I think you are definitely suffering from "depression". What is causing this depression is the thing you need to find out. Also, depression can last for years and lead you in no good directions.
I know you don't want to here me say it, but you need to see a doctor,that is also a therapist. This doctor is called a "psychiatrist".
They do not only treat crazy people, but they CAN help, by LISTENING to you and also prescribing medications that will correct some things chemically within you, that will eventually help you get back to the normal, happy you.
PLEASE don't ignore the signs, talk to a professional about it, you WILL be glad you did.
2006-12-12 14:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Daniele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way. I've been in a relationship for 5 years and now I have no emotions for him or other people around me. I think because for so long I had expectations of him and us that didn't happen, that I went through a period of hurt, anger, bitterness, and now numb. Maybe you should start over. That is what I'm thinking of doing.
2006-12-09 14:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by wondering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you are keeping alot of things bottled up inside of you and its preventing you from enjoying the wonderful things of life like laughing,sex and even crying maybe you should just let it all out because life is beautiful and everything in it even the bad things that's what makes us stronger hope you feel better with time you will i am sure of it
2006-12-09 13:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by apriljunemarch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly you already discovered why you carry your thoughts in. because of the fact no person looks to pay attention. yet you recognize, we are all here for you Vernitaa. i know its not comparable to human touch even though if this is totally useful to in undemanding terms permit it out. there are various smart people (however some may well be @sees) at here keen to show you how to which include your issues. Vent away! what's incorrect Vernitaa? what's incorrect? we are here to help. permit it out! notice: you're able to wanna circulate to psychology section quite of philosophy to vent. there are numerous useful people to speak with the aid of your problems with there.
2016-12-11 05:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by fechter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it is a good thing that you are aware of your situation. I know you said you don't want to be told to see a doctor, but I think you need to see a therapist. Just someone to help you work through it. It seems to me that you are depressed. It happens for no reason sometimes. You may not need medication, but someone to help you work through it.
2006-12-11 00:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by KJ97Y100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very fact that you have raised this point shows that you are emotional.Things do stir your mind; it is just that you keep them suppressed.Quite possibly these events do not stir you sufficiently. It is a passing phase that events keep you cool or they leave you unstirred. Do not shy away from events.Some small event may disturb you.
2006-12-10 22:56:32 · answer #7 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find someone that will listen to you and talk about anything thats bothering you. and pray to god to help you get threw this. and im just saying even i dont know you ill would be here for you just trying to make friends with people like you because im going threw something similar and i know its hard to find people to talk to about your problems. good luck finding help
2006-12-09 18:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by TiMELY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens sumtimes when sumone dies, but its only temporray to worry it'll last like 2-3 more months.
2006-12-09 12:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋