I am unmarried guy and I wanna know if ppl face problems after marriage because of old habit of mastrubation imagining friends or other women? Or this habits never comes up once u r married?
2006-12-09 12:52:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as you and your partner are sexual mature (in the mind) and can communicate, you shouldn't have a problem...I've never met a guy who's like "Oh my wife, Oh my wife" while masterbating and sometimes women's minds wonder too. It's natural...enjoy yourself and maybe she can enjoy herself along with you.
2006-12-09 12:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by preciouspinkla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, more guilt trips. Who is this guilt trip from - some church? Because you know every time you turn around some priest or pastor is banging a *****, blowing or cornholing a choirboy, hiring a gay transvestite hooker, screwing the church secretary, cheating on his wife, or creating a cult where polygamy is okay for men but not for women. They want you to do as they *say*, not as they *do*. Listen. Masturbation and thinking about *whoever* when you do it is completely normal, it won't go away after you get married, and it'll be the *only* thing that you'll have to help you out many times after you do get married and she's tired, not in the mood, whatever. So enough of the pollyanna "oooh it's so naughty" bullsh*t. Just do it when she won't see you or walk in on you - women can't know what the ugly underbelly of men's sexual practices look like or they'd never talk to us. It's your ****, your tissues, your KY, and your pecker. Rub one out whenever the coast is clear, and tell the pastor to shove that egg right back up the chicken, since he's probably effing the choir director or her 9 year old son.
2016-05-23 00:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a healthy relationship, masturbation can even be something the two of you can enjoy together - your husband would enjoy watching you and by "helping" he could actually learn some tricks on how to please you as well! However, also in a healthy marriage, neither couple should ever feel violated or uncomfortable, so if your wife/husband feels awkward, you should always respect and honor their feelings first. As far as doing it on your own - is it in secret when your partner is away/asleep and you feel guilty and would never tell them? Well, then it's wrong. Is it something you do in the afternoon when you are reliving last night's lovemaking, and afterwards call your husband and tell him breathlessly to "hurry home, I'm *thinking* of you", and he loves it? Well, enjoy! I strongly believe it is all relative, and also that with any fantasy, it should involve each other and not random thoughts of Jessica Simpson or Sawyer from Lost.
2006-12-09 13:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kristal R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage does not eliminate masterbation. If a couple have any sense they will not let masterbation cause problems. Masterbatoin is for physical release only. Making love is something entirely different. One is really not related to the other,
2006-12-09 13:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by raredawn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masterbation (or doing sex with hands) is a bad and unnatural way to satisfy your sex. You must understand that the touch of had with your penis is dangerous as your penis will become weak and you will not be able to insert in the vagina of your wife. I had experiened it . I did masterbate and kept on doing from the age of 17. I enjoyed but my penis has become a weak and lethagic part of my body. I kept on applying Tilla (Oil) for rubbing my penis and after a great stress and mental agony it has now become strong. But the fact remains that masterbation is not a good practice to satisfy your sex instinct.
2006-12-09 18:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no problem due to this habit, Enjoy your married Sexual life, Your partner too better understand that pre-marriage to quench the thirst of Sex the masturbate is done, and it is done only when the sexual thirst is not quenched.
Do much fore-play and enjoy sexual life, Slowly give more time to your partner and you will leave your habit of masturbate.
Still Masturbate will not lead to problem in life.
Thanks
2006-12-09 17:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by AVANISH JI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing like making love to somebody you love. Believe me, masturbation is out the door when you discover the real thing! ! And also, it's not healthy to think of somebody else while you're with your loved one, if so, why even bother; does it mean that that person next to you is not enough?
Once you enjoy the person you love, you'll never think of something else, those who do are loosers.
2006-12-09 12:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is not a "bad" habit, it actually enhances your sexual pleasure by allowing yourself to know more about your own pleasure, that self-knowledge when communicated to your sexual partner can enrich your sexual experience, no doubt, masturbation is another tool to feel and share pleasure, and should not be seen as something you must feel ashamed of.
2006-12-09 13:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a healty sex life with your partner then masturbation shoudn't be a problem, just make sure yur hand isn't getting more action than your girl. And don't look at **** to get it up, if you need that then go to your girl.
2006-12-09 17:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexual urge is natural . it is like hunger or thirst. to have harmony in society we beleive sex within married as justified. but till marriage any healthy person will get sexual urge . majority of the people masturbate to satisfy themselves. i feel within limit it would not affect one. as lot of energy is drained in this process if one exceeds limit it may tell upon his health.majority of males and females masturbate.so masturbation within limit may not affect ones married life.
2006-12-09 17:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by indhran n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋