...want men to realize about women? Often times, men are accused of being insensitive, oppressive, sexist, cheaters and bad listeners. If you could give a list of things men should change about themselves, what would it be?
2006-12-09 12:25:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
There's One Thing You Should Know.
You Can't Expect To Change Anyone, Except Yourself.
So The Real Question Is, What Do You Think You Can You Change About Yourself?
2006-12-09 12:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, most of the men I know are pretty reasonable in dealing with gender differences, and will listen if you get them alone. But for those men (and women, for that matter) that are sexist, cheaters, bad listeners, etc., take the time to hear what the opposite gender is saying to you. Try and put yourself in the other person's shoes so you can see what they're saying about their situation and so you can be a bit kinder to them.
2006-12-10 06:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by The Mad Shillelagh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont act like a moron, be serious, listen, give in to her needs, dont beg for bjs, invite her to go drink beer also, dont throw your clothes on the floor, Never and I mean Never use the excuses "I dont have time", and "I've been working all day, I just want to relax", Help her do things (dishes, laundry, shopping), Overall dont act like a typical male *** and show her some respect.
The list only goes on...its a never ending battle but thats a start.
2006-12-10 10:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by Nixxi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really believe that men should be more open in conversation with their partner. To show emotion is such a plus in a man. If he did this, he would have the world by the balls. Women just want a man that understands, talks to them, and really cares how they are feeling. Oh, by the way, a rock hard body would not hurt.
2006-12-09 20:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by june clever 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sooo many things... but here goes. What I would like them to realize... that we don't necessary want them to fix everything. Sometime when we are upset about something, we just want to rant and have them listen... (ranting is cathartic) and be understanding. I also want them to know that sometimes there is more than one right answer - and theirs isn't necessarily one of them - so be open to all possibilities.
2006-12-09 20:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by 2bczar4u 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not to treat us more inferiorly or in cheap manner just because we're woman. For example, "You run like a girl!" and when a guy is humorous, people laugh and appreciate. When a girl is humorous, people think she's a retard.
2006-12-09 20:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to fix every problem, you don't always have to be the strong one. Sometimes it's okay for a man to cry or just say, "I don't know what to do". Doesn't make you any less of a man.
2006-12-10 00:07:50 · answer #7 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you did a pretty good job but dont make us ask to get some help around the house
2006-12-09 20:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by eternallygrateful 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
not to lie about stupid things
to not be such babies
communicate better.... people are so scared of the word "communicate" but it really doesnt take much
2006-12-09 22:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont be an a ss
2006-12-09 21:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by x1born2shop1x 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋