how does a woman talk to her husband about E.D if he does not act like there is anything wrong. we have been together for 4 years and it seems to be getting worse. we have one child and while I was pregnant this was not an issue, but before and after only after is worse. please help
2006-12-09 12:15:55 · 9 answers · asked by ohiomontana 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I think that takes timing and finess. Most men want to be sexually gratifying to their mate so I would think there would be a way to slip in a little ice breaker somehow. Just make sure you are able to do it in private. I'd say maybe an hour before some kind of event so he has time to pout about it and then get his mind off of it by doing something else.
Not to be rude, but men do like to pout about things sometimes. Don't expect him to be jolly about it, but it still has to be addressed since sex really is an important part of an honest marrriage.
Oh yeah, and make sure the event isn't something like work that will negatively impact your source of income because he may decide to take it out on someone at work.....
2006-12-09 12:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by your_name_here 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some ladies do, a few identical to the inspiration of the culture and notice it as extra of a "manly" factor to do (you recognize, taking cost and expressing the way you suppose). We're very into the entire "fortunately ever after" matters, I hate to sound sexist however they are referred to as "chick flicks" for a intent. Men arent consistently identified for displaying the maximum quantity of emotion in a dating, so it is viable ladies suppose like guys will have to compensate by way of making the primary transfer. Oh, after which there may be the entire factor of "guys cannot decide to relationships" so perhaps ladies simply anticipate guys to guy up and ask ladies out. There are such a lot of causes why. But it isn't like every ladies are the equal, alot are optimistic ample to invite the man out.
2016-09-03 09:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely find a time when he is relaxed and can easily be approached. Be reassuring that you love him but addressing his ED would be a way to improve the relationship the two of you have. Discuss how ED is a medical condition that is not anyone fault and that it does not make less of a man to you.Fortunately today can be treated.
2006-12-09 16:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by eimmahs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH.......what the hell is e.d?. after what is worse. maybe your husband is as lost as iam. get your thoughts together and ask a question that makes sense.
2006-12-09 12:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be open and talk to your hubby about it. From what you are telling us, it seem that this may be psychological, instead of physical. Why don't the both of you talk to his physician first, and see what he thinks.
2006-12-09 12:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sensitive subject easy to hurt feelings ask him to try viagra just to see what happens and if you both like it reasure him he's the one and ya want it to stay that way.
2006-12-09 12:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him.... not to make him feel bad but recognize you need pleasure too... few pills wont make it worse...
2006-12-10 14:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By talking to him.
2006-12-09 12:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you think is going on,either he accepts it or not
2006-12-09 12:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by DOCP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋