Self criticism?

Question

Do people refuse to engage in criticising their beliefs and others who support them because they are concerned about being labelled as insincere, or because they cannot see when they are being fallacious, perhaps beyond being understandably so? If they know there are major holes in what they believe, or in the arguments used to support them, isn't it being intellectually dishonest to support said arguments?

Answer 1

Personally, I would try to debate different beliefs when I was younger, but there was a gnawing feeling that I hadn't learned enough. Anyone can espouse a belief, but substantiating that belief is tough. Most beliefs are open to debate. Perhaps the debate is actually the important part because you come to learn that not everyone thinks the same, but that we're all wrestling with the same issues.

Also, I think a lot of people grow up having belief systems thrust down their throats. It can take a lot of time to develop your own beliefs and voice enough to wish to discuss with other people. Inwardly people may question their beliefs, but yet feel they must cling to something. Getting back to your original question, I think that people will avoid debating their own beliefs if they haven't fully accepted those beliefs themselves.

Answer 2

=perhaps they are trying to convince themselves while attempting to convince you. You have 2 choices. Listen or tell them you don't want to go there. No easy but doable.