I am a woman...and I am being pursued by another woman....! She is lesbian...and trying to get me in bed....I'm married! Should i do it? I can't stop thinking about her...is it just the chase that is turning me on?? BTW...I work with her, she's under me.
2006-12-09 12:00:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My God girl this is so hot!!!!! I think it makes it so much hotter when you work together. I think I would try it! Your guy probably wouldn't even be mad if he found out about it. I've never done it but you are convincing me that it would be fun!
2006-12-09 12:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by kd 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
A lot of women are bi-curious, meaning that they are sexually attached to a male, in your case your husband, and curious what it would be to have sex with the female. Most likely you have some unidentified problem in your marriage, which pushes you into arm and bed of another person. You should try to identify what is a problem, and try to fix it, for the sake of your marriage. If you think that it is not betrayal of you husband to be intimate with the woman you are wrong. Infidelity is a pattern of behavior that seeks self-satisfaction at the expense of commitment to another. It strikes at the core defining characteristics of marriage: Two people determined to share themselves with each other in a way that is unique to them and not shared by others.They agree that the levels of trust and accountability, expected of each other will be greater than found in any other of their relationships. All of those commitment you will brake, so better keep your bi-curiosity as your fantasy.
2006-12-09 20:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
firstly - consider your husband and your marriage
secondly - think about what work will be like if you do and it doesn't work out
would sacrificing your marriage and career really worth it? OK it is flattering to feel wanted but the disadvantages outweigh the advantages
i would put this lady out of her misery - let her know that you are married and that is that - also that although you appreciate her as a colleague that a working relationship is a working relationship ONLY
2006-12-09 20:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by Aslan 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i read some of the other responses but i keep asking myself...what's missing? how's the situation between you and hubby? most folks don't even give flirtation a second thought if things on the home-front are okay. maybe girlfriend is offering something (sexual or not) that you're missing and maybe it has absolutely nothing to do with her working for you or her being a her. bi-curious is cool, fem/dom is okay but if you've never drank from those rivers, something else is going on. maybe.
2006-12-09 20:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ced 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) you are married how does your husband feel about it.
2) Since she works with you I'd say not a good idea. I'd tell her you are flattered but not such a good thing.
3) yes I think it is a possiblity you are turned on by the chase. I know I would be. It is cool having someone interested in you.
2006-12-09 20:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by Babe 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it is just the chase turning you on. don't ruin your marraige over this it is not worth it. you'd be doing the same thing if it was a guy.. Use these fantisies as an advantage to you own love life with your husband and tell her to go away or you'll have to speak to a supervisor. sounds like a sexual harrassment law suit to me she is trying to use you to get away up and over you
2006-12-09 20:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by Life lover 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're married. You are part of your husband and he is a part of you. Why not ask your husband how he feels about it? Suggest a threesome and get his reaction. If it's a positive one, then go to this woman and invite her over to your home and make it clear that he will be present and included in whatever transpires. One way or another, it should provide a solution to your dilemma.
2006-12-09 20:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
what you have here is something that lots of men including me will think hey can i come and watch . sadly that is the powerfull spell that comes from this from of witch craft or from a demon you need to inform this woman that she is not now or ever to attempt to contact you with any thing that is not directly related to work. beware this is a powerfull demon you are fighting
2006-12-09 20:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
curiosity that's why she is in your dreams.you are curious about being with a woman.
2006-12-09 20:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you have to stop thinking about her, a dream can end your marriage
2006-12-09 20:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋