People treat me like im a child, i'm 15 which is stll young but i feel a lot older that i am. i've experienced a lot in my life i was abused by me father, had 2 sister that made many sucidal attemps (but there okay, i'm still scared about it though), i another sister who fell pregnant at 17, and i have been suffering from drepression for the last year (and latey it has been bad, i'm scared for my life sometimes). I'm a private person so i keep everything to myself and i just cant find the courage to let someone know how i'm feeling. I write poems to express myself but still it doesnt seem to completely help the problem. Wat can i do??
2006-12-09 11:50:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You might want to goto a counselor at school. But more importantly, you need to live as a 15 year old. You have experienced much in your life, but none of that makes you an adult. It just means you have gone through what the average person hasn't. It gives you more knowledge than a 15 year old should have. You now need to learn to do teenage things.
Dont allow what has happened in your past to make you a slave to your future. Only you can-with God's help-change your future to one of happiness.
2006-12-09 11:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend that had the same problems. The best thing to do is to talk about it. Whether it is to a friend or a counselor or someone else you can trust, you have to tell someone. The more you let it build up inside of you, the worse it will get. Trust me, there are people who care, you just have to find them. Depending on where you live, there is always a school counselor for these problems, or, if you live in a large enough city, there are places you can go for free to talk to someone. Hope this helps.
2006-12-09 19:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by titans6242 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry sweetheart..you didn't have the greatest luck it seems. The only thing I can tell you is to confide in a good friend and to clench your teeth and get through it. In a little while you'll be an adult and things will be alot better. If you ever need anyone to talk to though, just email me and I'll be happy to talk ^_^
2006-12-09 19:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kara, writing is an excellent choice. But why are you scared for your life? You may need to talk. I enjoy talking. I am also the type person that hangs by myself. You can talk to me. Linda uponatimewhen@yahoo.com
2006-12-09 20:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by Linda and rickey L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I CAN REMEMBER BEING MOLESTED AT 4 YEARS OLD IN A FOSTER HOME. I DID NOT KNOW WHAT IT MEANT UNTIL THE 80S. IT STILL BOTHERS ME BECAUSE I WALKED AROUND WITH AN INFECTION THAT CAUSED ME TO BE INERTIAL DEPRESSION CAN BE DEADLY IF YOU DWELL ON IT. GET OUT AND ENJOY LIFE JOIN A CLUB, VOLUNTEER SOMEWHERE OR BECOME AN ADVOCATE FOR ABUSED CHILDREN..
2006-12-09 20:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by winnp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone you trust and talk to them about how you feel. You shouldn't have to carry all this on your own.
best of luck.
oh and life WILL get better, just hang on in there.
x
2006-12-09 19:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by nev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See my other answer on this Kara...also you could use spell check thats a good start....
2006-12-09 20:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by Vivian X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋